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Alright fellow bandsters Its time for Miss Kim to close my account and quit LBT.

Many ask why?

Well LBT has cause some issues in my personal life. And really fighting is never worth it.

So i wish everyone great luck on there wieght loss journey! I know one day we will all be skinny chicks!!!!

Peace out

Kim

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Well I"m sorry for one to see you go. I can't imagine what sort of problems LBT could cause, but of your life is not my own.

Cheers and take care in your journey.

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I have been reading your post. I do not see it what happened that you do not like us ?

Im still new will be banded in two weeks but this support group is AWSOME.I have made some great new friends.I feel that they care and that they WILL get me through the hard times and good times.Lots of advice when I need it.I may not agree but I am thankfull for it. I would not want to go threw this with out THEM. Are you sure????

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I can't believe anyone could be so involved in a forum on lap banding that it is affecting their personal life, unless there were problems in it beforehand. Sad to see someone go from a site that has such interesting and innovative things to say. Good luck to you. Maybe you should think this over and find out the underlying problem, or confront what you think is a problem head-on. A lot of respect can be gained from facing something.

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I spend a fair amount of time on this ole 'puter logged onto LBT. Hubby knows I need it. I need it for the banding support and for the short bursts of escape in my days as a stay-at-home-mom. We have a very secure relationship, but I have seen times where it drives him nuts and he let's me know "I'm over here!!!! Don't forget me!!!!" So I log off and take a break...but not forever!!

I'll miss you SunnyKim. I wish you the best in your realtionship and future. You are young. Please come back and visit as you are able. (((((hugs))))

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I can wholly understand online forums just taking up too much time. I have to actively limit myself, I only visit here for short periods but I have an online mothers group that I'm enormously involved in, there's 80 or so of us, I see the melbourne girls regularly in real life too and we've even had a national meet earlier this year and are planning the next. But if I didnt limit myself, I could and would sit on the comptuer for four or five hours at a time.

Good luck and I hope your break away does you good and you get some other stuff under control.

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Sorry to see you go, Kim. Best of luck to you and your partner. Hope everything works out there.

Good luck on your band journey as well. You know where we are if you need to talk or anything...

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Best of luck to you, but I don't know what I'd do without my LBT family. I feel like I know so many of the members here personally and that people really care about you here.

I wish you well.

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I am glad I found LBT not only for my journey thru the weight loss but also for the off topic conversations. It is like having my friends here with me. We all have so much in common and bring different views on the matter. My husband does not say anything to me about my time on the board. I have included him in several topics and he gives me his opinions as well but it is never the same as someone actually have been there. You will be missed SunnyKim and I hope that whatever is going on in your personal life gets better..

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If she checks back in I hope she will consider counseling. It sounds to me like she didn't want to face the harsh truth that this sight can sometimes provide. The band is hills and valleys and that's why you need to be able to face the truth and be realistic going into it. I doubt anyone here said anything to offend her specifically - everyone is so great here. She probably, well obviously, has some emotional issues. Sorry to sound harsh by saying that, but once again, I will not hold back the truth on this board and I expect you all to do the same, even if it's something I don't want to hear. Love you guys!

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