I just went to a seminar last night. I took my 14 year old son along as my support person. He is indeed very supportive. My husband had gone out of town and he's been against this procedure since I mentioned it to him. I've sent him links to information, studies, statistics. I've had friends who have had the procedure write him to tell them what a difference it has made in their lives. I know this is something I need to do for me, but it sure would be helpful to have his support in this. I'm also nervous about getting all this documentation. I've been at my current PCP for almost 3 years but didn't have a real PCP for many years before then. I did go to one of those clinics that does the diet pills off and on for a couple of years before going to this PCP so I am hoping that I can get some weight documentation from them to cover the years of documented obesity and weight loss attempts and that will be sufficient to get approval. I have a BMI of 41 with hypertension, sleep apnea, depression, and joint issues. I am thinking that should get me approval as long as I can get the rest of the documentation.

Welcome to the board, karmaandkismet! I think you will find lots of information and experience on the board- I know I have.

It is helpful having a supportive husband, but not essential. You might want to ask him what he's afraid of if you get the band and lose weight.

Anyhow, I wish you courage with this journey. I'm still in the pre-op phase myself, just waiting for approval and a date.