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Feeling Like A Failure
I just wanted to thank everyone who has responded above and privately Each and everyone of you supported me and showed you truly care. I felt better, more hopeful etc. immediately after reading the posts. Thank you all again, so much. I will keep you in the loop becasue I will be making changes and I WILL succeed!! XOXO Karla
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Feeling Like A Failure
Sorry Laurend. im a bit crabby right now. should probably be sleeping. But no. the problem with the major chest pain was not stuck etc. i was too tight and it more complicated than just stuck NOW, I sometimes get stuck and its a much different sensation. thanks again :-)
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Feeling Like A Failure
thanks. yeah, I know it was stuck. that's what I said int he post. but thanks :-)
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Feeling Like A Failure
Oh, I forgot something kind of important. After my surgeon's madatory 6 weeks post-op I did get a fairly conservative fill (dont remember how much) and the result was I couldnt eat ANY solids with out excruciating pain in my chest (NO NOT heartburn,...much much worse. and it was right after I swollowed. so a few das later I went in for a partial unfil.l and then, liek I said before, I went right back to my old ways...and with little to no problem......eat any amount, eat any kind of food. Occasionally the first meal something will get stuck and I have sliming etc. but never an y PB's . SInce this unfill, I havent seen my surgeon. its been months now!!
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Feeling Like A Failure
Hi everyone, new and old. It has been such a long time since I've posted or even visited. I joined last summer and this site helped me come to the decision i made to have lap band surgery on August 1st, 2006. Well here I almost 7 months later and I feel like a total and complete FAILURE. I am using the word "feel" because I don't want to be too negative and say I AM a failure) I weigh exactly what I did before my pre-op day liquid fast. Initially I lsost 10 pounds but only because of the dietary restrictions pre-and post surgery. After recovering, i badsically had no restriction and simply resumed eating, basically, the s ame way i was befor the band. I had no difficulty. It was as though I never had surgery. I was very dissapointed and a little depressed but then, through this site and speaking with my surgeon, i learned that it is normal for people to have little to no restriction until first fill. OK, I relaxed - this is normal. It doesn't mean the procedure didn't work for me. BUT, at the same time, i wasn't changing my habits. I wasn't measuring food or avoiding the no-no's and gradually I really was back to my old diet. Every now and then I would weigh myself and i'd actually feel happy that I hadn't gone over my pre-op weight. I kept fluctuating btwn the 10 pound initial loss and my pre-op weight. I had to AT LEAST do that dor my own sanity, nevermind health. I'm sorry, this is becoming a lot longer than I had intended. I guess after so many months and not sharing with anypne who might understand, I have a lot to say...I'll try and wrap it up. At various points, throughout all this I have done the following: gone back to consult with the nutritionist, researched a nutritionist who specializes in weight loss surgery patient that I could see regularly to really guide and support me (but never even called one) and most recently I started the zonechefs@home program. I'm sure many of you have heard of the ZOne Diet (many celebs use it). Anyway I have done Nutrisystem in the past-psat and know that the foods have a lot of junk in them which is why u don't need to refridgerate or freeze them. meanwhile the Zone is freshly prepared foods brought prepared by 4-star chefs and delivered to your door daily. So I thought this would be much healthier. And Iwould weight the food which did turn out to be half of each meal etc. but - that was about two months ago (30 days worth of dfood but I had them deliver 4 days a week instead of 7 since I'de be eating only half. Conclusion: I barely got started before I stopped. I knew it couldnt' hurt to come hear for support. BUT PLEASE, I DO NOT WAN'T NEGATIVE, SMART ASS "what the f---?!?" TYPES OF COMMENTS. I find them truly unhelpful; they only make me feel worse. I knew before I did this that I would have to change my lifestyle etc, etc and the procedure is not a magic bullet, blah,blah, blah....I'm a pretty smart person but intelligence has little to do with it. Thank you and I hope all or at least most of you are doing better than me, truly.
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Diets
Has anyone tried ZoneChefs? This is "The Zone" diet freshly prepared and delivered daily to you door. I just ordered it and wondered if anyone here has any experience with it. Thanks! <!-- / message --><!-- sig -->
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Diets
Has anyone tried ZoneChefs? This is "The Zone" diet freshly prepared and delivered daily to you door. I just ordered it and wondered if anyone here has any experience with it. Thanks!
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PRE-FILL Blues??
Leatha, what does it mean write a post that just says: "bump. bump, bump"? I know it has o do with re-posting something that ws good an applicable again, but can you explain specifically what yours mean? thanks!
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Some good, quick, healthy breakfast ideas??
Alexandra and anyone else, I have questions re: Protein bars: 1. What brand/type of protein bars do you eat? How many grms protein? fat? sugar? 2. Do you eat them as one of your three main meals or as a snack inbetween meals?
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Another Phony E-mail Refuted
how is it lap band related?
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Another Phony E-mail Refuted
I do not understand this thread? What is it about? What phony e-mail was refuted? Thanks for any clarification.
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Moderators
Is it the Brittany Spears nude pics you're talking about? i don't think they're real. Someon eprobably just attached images of her head to porn pics
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Hacker??
It happened to me too! I got so frustrated that I just downloaded, installed and PAID for a spyware scan and removal/fixer program
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Some good, quick, healthy breakfast ideas??
I have a 4cc band. I had surgery was 8/1/01 My first fill was 1.8, i think and I could not eat solids without extgreme pain in my chest as soon as I swallowed esophageal spasms, I later learned) so I had to have a partial unfill. now i thin kits 1.4. I can eat solids wothout pain now but do not think I have much restriction because I can eat anything I want and I know I'm eating more than 4oz. per meal. No foods are bothering me. I'm not really sure of the fill amounts but I know that I had a very small fill for my fisr one and then I was too tight and had some taken out.
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Some good, quick, healthy breakfast ideas??
Thanks Dawn. What do you mean by: "3.4cc in a VG band"? How many cc's is your band (how big is it)?