K@t

LMAO..of COURSE they are ready....now...any tips for getting a woman ready in the morning??? It's all I can do to roll over and get outta bed and get my ass into the shower......

my cats totally suck...i got them both when they were baby kittens (like 6 weeks old) and they were raised here inside the house, so it was the first time they had ever seen any thing like it. One cat completly ignored it, and the other pawed at it a bit and chased it under the sink and started at the sink and mewowed for awhile, but when it didn't come out she just left....stinkin cats, i feed them clean up their poop and pet and play with them...the least they could do is corner the thing so i could toss it outside. (I don't want them to kill it i think i would feel bad about that, but at least corner it some place so i could catch it.)

I'm 25 and married, however I can related to the being overweight my whole life thing. I use to think i was huge too but looking back at the photos i don't think i was as big as people made me out to be, or as i made myself out to be. I'm not to worried about plastic surgery, but i do think i will need it eventually and im scared of having to have another surgery...(pain ouch!) but I'm still young and I want to look my best married or not...so i know what ya mean.

okay, there is a freakin lizard in our house...a flat geko i think...how the hell it got up on the the 4th floor of our building and then climbed into our apartment I don't know but it scuttled in a week ago, and the cats chased it behind the tv furniture. We hadn't seen it since then and tonight it turned up in our bedroom! eeecccccckkkkkkkk!! I tried to catch it in a tupperware bowl, but it run under the skin in the bathroom....now what???? How the heck do I get it out?? I just know its going to climb the wall over my bed and land on my face in the middle of the night..... :phanvan :faint: :cool:

I've tried about 4 diffrent brands over the past 5 years and it always seems to be the same thing, and we get up at 6am every morning almost....I'm way to exhausted then as well as at night.... but i agree if you want something bad enough you have to make it a priority....i guess we just need to make it more of a priority...

and that...emilee is one tight end!!! You guys look so cute together!

I thought about that...but hes paranoid about me getting pregnant...he just doesn't want it to happen. If I went off the pill I would have to lie to him and tell him I'm still taking it, and I'm not sure that's really something I want to do.

Thanks for all the advice everyone!!

Penni - add super stretch to my list!! teresita - I'm reading the site as we speak morsaille - i make him pull out...the thought of man juice any where near any part of my body makes me kinda sick.... funnyduddies - unfortunatly....its not kinky at all.... u know what i feel like im hijaking this thread, i'm going to start my own....sorry...:speechles :focus:

Ok I just had to post. I decided to order my secret sams gift online so i didn't have to pay shipping charges from here to there....so i googled some things she said she liked, and I found a bunch of things on ebay. So i contacted one of the ebay people about making a gift basket and WOW momma!!!!! She did an awesome job. When this thing is over I'm going to post her contact for any one else who is interested in these types of things because this women went WAY above and beyond the call of customer service. I'm very impressed!! I'll post a pic after my SS gets her gift, I don't want to ruin any surprises. :cool:

omg, this thread is to funny..where did that smily come from?! I want one! Welp, I'm actually surprised to hear so many women like to do "it" because I actually don't like to and only do it when I'm begged to and I've ran out of excuses...Am I missing something? Is there some way to do it that makes it more enjoyable for me???

ughhhhhhhhh the waiting is the worst.....i feel for ya, and I'm crossing my fingers!

This was for fun. And all those who participate do so with full knowledge of who is answering the question, they are under no illusion that I'm some professional, and they can do what they want with the advice that is given.

Dear K@t, A year ago I met this wonderful man on eharmony.com and we began to date. After about six months I started to wonder about our future and asked him how he feels. To my surprise he said he thinks we are too different and have different goals. He is fairly wealthy and could easily afford to have a family, while I'm a single mom and make very little money. He says he wants to have a wife to work and make good money so he isn't on his own in supporting a family. He also said he doesn't want to sacrifice the financial comfort he has so far. After hearing all of this I told him that I can't magically change for him and I couldn't make the changes without commitment. The problem is, he wants me to make big changes like taking out student loans to go back to school full time before he can commit to this relationship. I don't want to change my life around for him if he isn't committed. We have been dating on and off for the past six months and we are very good to each other, this is the only real problem in this relationship. Am I silly to be with a man who wont accept me for what I really am? A low income single mom that really loves him. Sincerely, Anonymous -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Anonymous, There are many warning signs here. The fact that he doesn't accept you as you are, is the biggest. Don't let him lure you into taking out loans and into changing your entire life with little or no commitment offered. Love is about sacrifice, if he isn't willing to sacrifice his level of financial comfort for you, why would he ask you to sacrifice your already delicate financial situation by taking out loans? It sounds to me that he is looking for an "out" of the relationship by coming up with impossible hurdles for you to jump and by making comments such as you are too "different". It doesn't sound like he is committed to the relationship and you deserve better! Cut your losses and run, there is some one out there for you who likes you for you and not for what you can give him. You and your children deserve better.

Ok so I'm an avid Dear Abby fan, and just about any other advice column I can get my hands on. I love reading them and reading the responses and seeing if I agree or not. So this thread will probably be dead in the Water, but I thought it would be fun if any one would like to participate. I'd like to do my own version of Dear Abby here on the forum. If any one has a problem as far as relationships, etiquette questions or any thing you would just like an opinion about, PM me and I'll post a thread with a response. (no names need to be used) Even if you don't participate it would be a fun thread to read if I could get some people to write me..... Maybe I'm just being silly but if any one wants to give it a shot pm me!

There are 2 things I can say about this from my experience. I see Donna's point about CPS being so disorganized. When I was about 7 I fell off a trampoline at a friends house and gouged my arm and got a few bruises. My teacher called CPS with out even talking to me or my mother to find out how it happened, and they came to the school took me to the office, had me remove my clothes and photographed me. All with out calling my mother. When my mother picked me up from school I was crying and told her what happened. She marched right up to the school and let the principal have it. Now what was CPS doing taking photos of a minor with out even contacting any one responsible for me?? The 2nd thing is that Diane mentioned that the father was some times verbally abusive. This is abuse too and can be just as damaging or worse then physical abuse. My father use to call me fatty when I was about 6. I never forgot it and to this day it still pains me inside. What the father is doing is escalating in his abuse first it was verbal and now its gone to physical. I agree with Mommy that your friend is probably telling you a rose colored version of the story. If I was in your shoes I would call CPS. You never know, your friend might be next. If he will do it to innocent children I imagine his wife isn't immune either.

I think I'm actually a bit distrubed by that photo......:pirate :cool:

To be honest I don't think I care what the rest of society thinks. The only opinions that matter to me are my own and my family/close friends. And even then my opinion rules over all of theirs. I try to look and feel good about myself in my own way. I don't worry about what others think. There has always been and probably always will be impossible standards of beauty, and there will be those girls who decide that its worth the effort and those who decide to use their time for something more productive. It's just how society is. And beyond that we as humans have sooooooooo many different definitions of what's beautiful. As the old saying goes Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And it really is.

Hey guys, thanks for the support. P'nut - Those healthy kat meals never got made because I don't even have time to cook right now. I haven't done dishes in a week! This month is just all messed up with work right now. Good news is though I found a little place near the school that has a salad buffet and u can take a plate to go. Thats going to be my lunch from now on. And I found some awesome chocolate yougerts from Nestle with 77 calories per cup. (sugar free of course) That was breakfast. now...about dinner....I have these soup packs that Alison sent me and I have been eating those. 100cal soup packs. Now if I can just stick to this i ought to lose something!! Kathy, your right, at least I didn't gain!

C 236lb (-17lb total, 0 this week) I suck, I gotta get a grip on my eatting. Exercise and water are doing great!

I know how ya feel leener, I'm having more or less the same problem. Some days are better and some are worse. I'll probably be getting a fill at the end of the month. And even then I know the fill isn't going to solve all my problems. It's just a work in progress to make healthier choices and to get into better habits. It won't happen over night so we can't beat ourselves up over doing something that has come so easily to us for so long. So I just try to say, I'll do better when I'm not doing so good, and try harder...

hehe that thought had never even crossed my mind!

tina, you can still participate, I have sent you a pm you need to respond as soon as possible please, because I don't have your new address. I never received a confirmation pm, nor the pm you said you send on may 10th. There must have been a problem with the PM's. On another note. Some people were asking if they should include their name in their gift. I'm leaving it up to you. On July 4th I will post the list of who bought for who. You can wait until then to reveal who you are, or you can put your name on your gift that you send. It's totally up to you!

I'm just checking in here. I'm doing pretty good on the water and exercise front, but the food front is just kickin my arse! There is an icecream shop just downstairs from the school and its soooooo hot these days...excuses I know....I'm trying harder...starting...NOW!

good to hear your doing so well...don't wear yourself out at the mall! Heather