VirginiaRN, you sound like an amazing woman. I think most of us who are here have had some sort of back lash re out bodies. But guess what, they know nothing about your heart. It hurts when you do something to help others like you do and then get a slap in the face in return. Yeah it sucks balls to be honest. Don’t change who you are. They’ll get theirs in time I can assure you. You’re stronger than you think, don’t let these in-important people get you down. Be positive, forget them and concentrate on you. :)