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I believe this app is called bariatric pal right! Not bariatric B.... A little kindness can go a long way Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I first joined back in October of 2014...pre-sleeve and nervous with so many questions. I found this site to be very helpful from both veterans and newbies and I'm thankful for that. Much like offline life people are gonna be nice and others are just gonna be snarky and rude....and while I may be a New Yorker with thick skin it even irritated me a little...just a little So I stopped posting and our group made a Facebook page for those sleeved in January of 2016. It's super helpful and we're even planning a little gathering for our 1 year anniversary. It will never get rid of assholes cuz seriously they're everywhere but I think there's less snark when full names, location and family photos are attached to a profile P.S. I haven't posted on here in months...and even when I did it was rare. But somehow I knew exactly who you were talking about lol Chill Hun...don't let them get to you. Snarky trolls have nothing better to do so they sit online all day and post, post, post to get a response from you. well said Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

How about something like this? I understand the difficulty in this phase, but you can get threw. Don't give up. Your response is unsuperportive unkind and rude. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

We think the same. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

haha I actually think that may be the whole reason I posted the original post.....I'll be 4 weeks post op on Monday and think I'm having a hormonal dump and just needed a good snarky pissy conversation...hahahaNo surprise there.I'm glad you said you were a little hormonal. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

That is what I mean .I have a lot of studying to do. I hate all the negative and rude postsubject. I going to look into you being my doctor Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

No where did I say embrace the lack of progress. If you think about it and work on it progress will come. You must be a very hard person to work under. Good bosses can get a lot out of there employees. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Well I guess there is no thumbs up for you and your sobriety. I would think that would be a accomplishment Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

It is very possible to be helpful in a kind way Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Right but a little sympathy and understanding doesn't hurt Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I agree with you! Embrace it NO. Think think think about it! That's the way to past it. Give yourself a chance to work it out. You will find the answer. Don't give up, Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

By the way I did give you a like. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Your right u can't control others words. And you are better off just controlling your reactionso. On the other hand if you don't have anything nice to say don't be hurtful because you can. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I agree, to each his own. I think of it as art. And beautiful art if we'll thought out Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Very cool! I have 1 on my for arm above my wrist. I really like yours. I have been told that it really hurts on upper foot and ankle area? Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

That has been my story also. I throw my hands up. What the hell. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Hi, I might be considering in Mexico. How was your experience? I hope all went well. Did they set you up with after care? Weren't you afraid of the Water. Please tell me the good & the bad of it all. I need much help making my decision. Thank you. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I am sorry I mean if you can't trust the water. Will there be no water involved in surgery? Wouldn't be able to drink the water either Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I am considering the sleeve in Mexico. But have many ? If you trust the water, how can you feel safe about the surgery? What about unexpected problems after I return to the US? I will not be able to return should problems arise. Who will take care of my after care? The more I think about having surgery in Mexico the more ? I have. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I have not been given a date yet, but I will continue talking. Listening to you. Thank you. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Get off your self proclaimed superior high horse. Most people do have feeling and come to this site for support. Evidently you come to put people down. I hope others will ignore ignorant post, It helps no one. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

Oh my God!! You are so right. Well said. And those mean people do know who they are. Why do those people feel so superior? We should all be supporting each other. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

I already feel better just saying that!!!! I feel a little bit of Bit.. alot Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

So these thoughts and wanting to hurt people is normal??? Sent from my SM-N920V using the BariatricPal App That was my normal BEFORE surgery.Yes I don't have a surgery date yet. Sometimes I hate the world. When I feel like this, I search out the kind people on this site. The rude and negative people, can go to hell!! Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App

There is such a wide ranges of time from first visit to surgery date. For some it's so quick. And others not so much. For me it is coming up on 2 years. I hope yours is sooner than later. Sent from my SM-G930T1 using the BariatricPal App