Hello,
I'm in the same situation I also have 3 kids the 1st one 16 the other 2 r 6 in December. I had them at 41 very bless twins. I just hate the weight I can't do as much as I want with them. A few health issues to. I'm scheduled 4-5-2016 insurance requires 6 months. So u loss some weight before the surgery that's awesome. Im trying but they said if I get below the bmi it would b canceled because of insurance requirements. Best of luck to and your children!!