MsAlaineus

The only bright side is that you know what NOT to look for in a physician. Make sure you tell everyone how much of a tool he is.

I'd love to start this thread going. I attend OA meetings and the support, honesty, and peace I find is critical for me. I am parenting myself, putting my needs first, validating my inmost feelings; the ones I thought were only mine to bear. I thought it was all mumbo-jumbo...I realize now how complex my relationship with myself, food, and emotions really is. I also realize WLS is only a small part of my overall journey. Is there anyone else who is interested in keeping in touch?

Ok. I'll keep that in mind. I think I can get by with sitting more until I'm getting more foods I that will sustain me.

Wow! Glad to see all of you! I'm so excited!

I'm sorry to hear about the nausea. Did they give you anything for it, or did it pass on its own?

AAAAHHH! I teach and plan on taking a week off. I was assured that would be sufficient. Is there any pain, or is it just fatigue?

I met with the behaviorst that is a part of the weight management group that will do the surgery. He gave me several names of other potential therapists, so I am armed with possibilities. Its empowering to know that I can make decisions that affect my life in a positive way!

Congrats! You have a great attitude! You'll get there!

Recordsmom, Thats a genius idea!!!! Thank you for sharing! I think this is the answer to the problem I've been having!

Wow, you took the words right out my mouth! I'm in the early stages of pre-op and I'm kind shocked at how much I LOVE food in such an unhealthy way! I'm supposed to lose appr. 25 lbs before surgery and haven't even begun trying! I'm mostly afraid of not being able to eat what I want. I'm so frustrated with myself!! I'm glad I'm not alone! I had no idea that this realization was waiting for me! I'm looking at it as an opportunity to just how far on "autopilot" I've been. Waking up and taking an honest inventory is hard...but I'm believe it will be so much more rewarding to feel my feelings. Let's keep in touch. XO, Ms. A

Thanks! You know, I want to be better inside and out. The reality of what I'm going to do to myself physically has set in, and now I am facing my emotions, head on. I feel like I'm walking into a snowstorm of emotion without my trusty-dusty fur coat. It dawned on me today that while some folks "cry it out" I have NEVER been able to do that. I hardly EVER CRY when I'm upset! I can't seem to muster the ability to release tears! How the hell have I gotten like this!??!! I called a counselor today and she and I are going to meet this week. I explained what I've decided to do, and what kind of support I have sought, as well as what sort of support think I might need. She specializes in eating disorders, so hopefully I will pick up some new tools to retrain my brain. Wish me luck. XO, Ms. A

Who are you going through-- if you don't mind sharing...?

Faster than I was ready for! I'm being told my surgery will be early May!

Thanks! I'll check it out!

OCD banshee....???? Hugs to the OP. You are not alone.

I am right there with ya. I'm terrified that they will DQ me because of my love affair with thin mints and chicken strips. I have to loose 20# post op or they won't operate. Thanks for being honest. XO, Ms. A

Well said!

Where did you get the compression tanks?

...so I should stock up on eggs, maybe?????

I'm so sorry you are going through this. ????

I hear ya on the mental preparation front. I have been told my surgery will be in early May, however I haven't gotten my date.

What a lovely place to recover! Best wishes!

Many folks who go through WLS realize at some point that they've inadvertently developed an emotional attachment to food over the years that they've never fully realized. I think for men it is difficult to fully grasp the role that food plays in managing/avoiding or even mediating feelings. Do you think he would be open to going to a support group for overeating, or attending therapy? He's not alone in this, and with support, he can get through it. He's lucky to have you to care and look out for him! XO, Ms. A

Thank you for sharing! We are going to Disney in August. It's great to know that you had a good time and were pain free!

I know you are on cloud nine! Congrats!