Kaitiana

Goodness...I haven't logged on here in so long! Going to try to remedy that now. Life's just been crazy! Will try to catch up on past posts. Hope everyone is doing well!

Actually, I think they DO have classes for people who want to learn how to flirt...I'm not sure where you would find them exactly, but try looking for body language experts or coaches. I know that I've seen them on television shows before. Good luck!

I had my tonsils out when I was 18. I have to say that it IS tougher when you're older than if you get them out younger, BUT the tonsillectomy was definitely easier to recover from than my C-section and even my lap band. Just make sure that you follow the advice to get as much liquids in when you can. And don't be afraid to use the painkillers as needed. My biggest obstacle in recovery honestly was having to deal with my 5-year-old little sister and 4-year-old little brother at the time sneaking around my mother to torment me. *grin* I can't offer any specific advice as far as having the surgery while banded goes, but I bet you do fine!

Goodness...another November thread? It's impossible to keep up with all of you! =)

You're welcome! Here is the link to Dr. Wagner's website: Bariatric Weight Loss Lap Band Gastric Bypass Surgery St. Louis Missouri (MO). You want to scroll down until you see seminars and you can find out information about his seminars there. Also, the St. Alexius New Start website is here: St. Alexius NewStart. Good luck making your decision, and let me know if you have any other questions! Thank you!

Hi there! I had surgery on 11/17/08 and my surgeon is Dr. Van Wagner of Heart of America Bariatrics. I had my surgery at St. Alexius and had a great experience. Dr. Wagner also performed the surgery on two of my co-workers, who were the ones that inspired me to have my surgery with him. I second the recommendation to attend a couple of seminars in order to learn more about the surgeons and figure out which might be the best for you. I admit that I only went to Dr. Wagner's seminar because I already knew I wanted to go with him thanks to my co-workers, but it's never a bad idea to check out your options. Good luck!

I have to say I've been lucky enough to never be treated in a snooty manner by salespeople--lucky for them, too, as I would let them have it! *snicker* I never really understood the snootiness--especially in a profession where a lot of people often work on commission. HELLO, snooty skinny saleslady--that "big" woman in your store may very well be shopping for friends and/or relatives and "big" people's money spends just the same as "skinny" people's money! And if it's a store that CARRIES plus-sized clothing or items that are not dependent on size--such as perfumes, jewelry, etc.--it's triply stupid to be snooty toward overweight customers. Not to mention just plain rude, of course.

I do have to ask--are you walking or doing any other exercise? I have noticed that if I don't walk, then I maintain around the same weight. Whereas if I walk 20-30 minutes at least every day or two, then I steadily lose weight. Just a thought. If you're not walking/exercising* regularly, try adding it in. If you are already, disregard this. I will say though that the first 4-6 weeks after surgery are first and foremost about healing. Try not to stress too much if you're not losing that much yet. It should get better once you have your first fill or two. * Please note: only do whatever walking or exercising that your doctor has cleared you for. For instance, I have been cleared to do whatever amount of walking I want, but I'm holding off on other forms of exercise until my surgeon clears me.

I have to echo what the others said. I was banded on November 17th and was on clear liquids for a week, then full liquids for a week, and only this week was progressed to soft/mushy food. Next week I get to start eating solid food--BUT I am to introduce things slowly to see how I tolerate them, and I am supposed to avoid pork and beef for at least two months. It sounds to me like you ate way too much and the wrong type of food for the stage of recovery you are in. I would think that even if your doctor had advanced you to solid foods so quickly it wouldn't be advisable to try so many different types at once. You should definitely discuss things with your doctor if you are worried.

jmegirl and lindata: Thank you! My literary agent just sold my book at the end of October (publishing moves at the speed of a glacier--I haven't even seen the official contract yet), so it won't come out until either late next year or early 2010. I actually found out somebody wanted to buy my book on my birthday--and ALSO got the call I was approved by the insurance company for the lap band. It was my best birthday yet! =) My main character is a Fury out of Greek mythology in modern-day Boston and she's a ton of fun to write. I'll PM you both my pen name and book title and you can check out my writing website if you'd like! And I DO love young adult fiction. I read more adult than YA these days, but I have always loved YA and will always read it. I was just banded November 17th of this year--early on but doing great so far!

Good for you! What a great NSV. You should be proud of yourself. =)

I have a few young adult recommendations for you if you haven't read them yet: Tithe by Holly Black (faeries) Wicked Lovely by Melissa Marr (also faeries) Vampire Academy and Frostbite by Richelle Mead (duh--vamps! :cursing: ) Those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head. And I LOVE Charlaine Harris's books, both her Sookie Stackhouse series and her Harper Connoly series...tho I have to catch up on them both. It's nice to see so many people here with similar reading tastes to my own! (My books are actually going to be published by the same company as Charlaine, Jim Butcher, and LKH. I'm very excited!)

Welcome to LBT, and good luck with your surgery! =)

Congratulations, Ejmdiva! I've been lurking around this area of the forum for awhile and I'm so excited for you! I'm not pregnant or trying to conceive yet, but one of the major reasons I just had the lap band surgery is so I can get a lot healthier before we DO try to conceive in a year or so. Reading about all of you going through your pregnancies is helping me calm the baby fever for now! =) Again, congrats!

It's been a little quiet around here so I thought I'd start a new thread. How are my fellow Notorious Novembers planning to handle Thanksgiving? Since most of us are so recently banded, it's important to have a strategy ahead of time! My husband, toddler, and I are going to my mother's tomorrow. Since I am still on full liquids, I am planning to take some blended Soup with me, and I am also planning to make a sugar-free chocolate pudding pie tonight. That way, there will be at least two things that I can have for lunch. I am also planning to have some of my mother's mashed potatoes and gravy, but I plan to thin the potatoes out with extra milk. Everyone knows about my surgery and has been really supportive, so I don't expect any issues there. So what's everyone else planning?