Hi everyone...I am being banded tomorrow. I am 55 and have had weight issues for the past 20 years. My husband is supportive but thinks this whole thing is pretty expensive and still wonders why I can't just do this on my own. I will be alone this holiday except for my son. My husband had planned on visiting his mom (prior to my decision to have surgery and she is in her 90s) which is 1000 miles away. I did not really tell anyone about my surgery except for one close friend. I have really enjoyed reading all of the posts. I am a little nervous but did have gall bladder surgery a year ago and did not have any trouble so I hope this will go ok as well. I have spent so many years on so many diets and then failed that during the past few years..I have not even been able to start a new one. I want so much to wear jeans that do not have an elastic waist band, I want to ride a horse, I want to ride a bike again, and I want weight to just not be an issue anymore. Best to everyone...