I am 4 weeks post op. The nerves are natural. I even had the thought that because I was losing weight pre op maybe I didn't need it.
I had a robotic procedure which left me with very little pain post op. I was able to go home the next day. Since then, I feel as if I've gotten my life back. I have soo much energy. I walk alot now! It was hard mentally at first, but it passes quickly. Celebrate your little milestones! I'm down 30 pounds since surgery, and 43 from my hw. Good luck! It's definitely worth it.