Dreamin Again

I am still very early in the process. I am hoping to have my surgery mid November. I have gone back and forth with this issue and I just haven't made up my mind what to do yet. Of course the members of my household know I am considering it and they are pretty supportive but I think about how my other family members will react. They have never really supported me in important matters before so I am unsure what to do. I have to tell them something because my niece is my boss and I doubt I can just get by with telling her I need a week off for "surgery". Some days I am very determined that when the time gets closer I will tell them, at least I will tell my mother then I won't have to inform the rest of them as she will have already done it lol. I know I have time to decide but it does weigh heavily on me.