I do feel like my best friend is that way.. She's not skinny...she's think in all the right places. She keeps saying I know you can do it on your own, you shouldn't do it... I keep telling her if I could do it on my own I wouldn't be in this situation! Apart of me thinks that she's worried that I'm threatening her "pull". I didn't do this to get a man! But it wouldn't hurt, but that's not my reason..lol...I was always the tag along fat friend to go with her when she went out and now she's not liking me not wanting to go anywhere... I don't know...She does call to see how I am and asked if I wanted to come hang out at her house..It's not as bad as you, but I know she disapproves.