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If I continue with all my appointments I should know when my date is sometime next month too!!!! Exciting!!!

I really like how you put that into words... I've tried talking to him about it but he doesn't budge on it. I think after we sit and talk to his dad about it (his mom almost went the surgery route but was denied by insurance) and his dad gets through to him that it's not who're giving up its about getting my life back and it's not as scary as it sounds he will be ok: he needs someone that's not me to give him a level headed opinion and since he won't come to any appointments or classes with me I think he will listen to the man he looks up t the most. I've made my decision, now I'm just waitinf for him to accept it and move forward but it seems t be much more of a deal with him than anyone I know

An entire support team, not hire lol

I hope so! Although at the moment i am not sure if it is goin to happen. My bf was talking about leaving because I wasnt respecting his opinion or words and I was just decidin to move forward in this without his help in dieting and exercise. But when I talked to everyone including his parents they said to do what is right for me and my health. I just don't see how he can't feel that way too. He's worried I will die because he has terrible luck, seriously, and then he will be left to care for my 4 year old son on his own. While there is always risks I have tried to explain to him all the testing I have to have done to make this as safe as possible and that once it was over with and I was back home he would feel better and that even if anything happened god forbid, he has a hire support team that would help with my son in an instant. I don't want to give up on this but I'm nowhere near giving up on our relationship. Just really sucks right now :/

Hopefully they do mami, things were bad here too with my relationship but I think hes starting to come around. They say the surgery can help or destroy marriages and I'm kind of scared about that. I don't want there to be bad changes but I can see him getting insanely jealous that I got looks idk

Lol yeah I'm pretty terrified of the saggy arms aspect of this but I'd rather have that over being big and unhealthy. I'm also hoping age and skin elasticity is on my side and will decide to just go back to how it should have been lol. Even if it doesn't the first couple years at least if it happens I will be thrilled lol. I want to be able to fit Ina decent wedding dress and walk down that aisle feeling beautiful and not hating my body. One of those many goals I have

It's nice to get advice and insight on topics I wouldn't know where else to go. I can't wrap my head around this still. I haven't been thin since I was a little girl, I can't imagine it actually happening to me. It's still surreal

Today I am feeling blessed for this oppurtunity to restart my life and get healthy. My grandmother passed away in November and her weight had a ton to do with it and she was only 69. I feel like she would be proud of me taking control of my life the way she couldn't. I'm proud that I am finally putting my foot down and admitting I had a problem and my weight was not normal. And now that all my pre op doctor appointments are scheduled the surgery is starting to feel real to me now and I am so happy. I want to thank all of you for posting so many different issues and also for the support. You guys are truly amazing!

I got all my next steps in the mail today, and have all the doctor appointments scheduled and the last one is September 17th! It's really happening!

I am going through insurance, united health care. And thank you!

Yeah my that was the main factor my dr was worried about when I was at my consult. Whether or not I would take the need for vitamins seriously. I don't mind taking them, I just would like to not pay a ton of money for them

Oh that would be so amazing! I am a single mom who is going through school and working part time so I can't really afford much more than the daily needs.

Are the vitamins something you have to buy yourself or can they be a prescription?

Ok I finally got approved for surgery and here are my requirements: 1. Pulmonologist appt 2. Dietary instruction appt 3. Psych eval 4. Abdomen ultrasound 5. And a pre-surgical education class offered by hospital After I get my surgery date I will have to have upper GI, chest X-ray, EKG, and blood work up. And then finally I will have to have a 15 day pre op liquid diet. Lucky I didn't have to have supervised diet

Ah ok well that's a lot better than I expected lol. My surgical doctor is a little over an hour away so if I had the chance to get most everything done before at my pcp that's great! Sucks about the psych eval but If I have to wait that long I think it'll be ok. I was hoping to have it done later around Xmas time so I didn't have to miss school and I get a pretty nice bonus from work at the end of the year that would have helped me being out of work for 3 weeks and I don't get vacation time