As much as I hate to say this because I experience this as well in my own home, this must be said, it is time to focus on you. This is a tough time for you and you need the support but when you don't get it - it is time to say "it's about me". Take control and know that this phase will pass and when it does you start slipping in healthy foods to your husband. Mine has not figured out that he ate turkey chill and meatloaf the other day. He has turkey sausage with his Breakfast and there are more fresh vegetables than there used to be. You make the change at home and when he is away from home these are his choices. 11 days has passed you're doing great. It gets boring but have no fear I am 2 months out and I have had my ups and downs BUT you get through it. I am down 54 pounds! Feeling great and looking forward to the new me!
You got this. You take control of you and then it will only roll out to your husband!
Hopefully that made some sense?