As long as you don't neglect the important people in your life I feel we should all feel good about ourselves. I can't wait to see onederland and I will save for a mommy makeover too. It is not that I don't like myself I want to do it because I do like myself and I want to be the best me there is.
I relate! Good Luck, great choice. My surgery is May 23. I have to change my head too. We love family but I know in my family all family get togethers surround food - I need to shift that thinking.