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I was diagnosed with atopic dermatitis about a year ago. I take Zyrtec every night which helps a lot vs. daytime meds that just make me sleepy. Sorry you have to go through this, definitely not fun.

Yay Yay Yay! Congrats!!

Just wanted to say I have chosen not to repost my pic because I received some unwanted sexually suggestive PM's when my pic was posted. I did not take take down my pic due to a privacy issue. IMHO you can never know someone's motivation unless they share it with you.

Kudos to her for supporting / sharing her love language with you in a healthier way. Kudos to you for staying strong when she shares her love of cooking w/others who are not as diligent about their health.

Congrats! When you do step into Victoria's Secret, be prepared for a shock! Bras & Panties are way more expensive then I remember. $62.00 for a bra?? But, they look darn sexy & need something now that the old ones don't fit!

I can definitely see a difference in your thighs, waist, and even your arms. You should definitely be very pleased with yourself!

I have been in you shoes. My highest starting weight was 255. I am 5feet 7, so that put me around a 40BMI. On the 9 month pre-op plan I lost 55lbs. My family REALLY tried to discourage me from surgery saying that my weight loss was evidence I could do it myself. The thing is, I have lost weight before, many, many, many times. I have said b4 that I was a great dieter, sucky maintainer, and super regainer (plus more). I knew I had to do something different this time, or I would just end up repeating my old patterns. (Remember that saying about Insanity: doing the same thing over & over and expecting a different outcome). Upon much reflection / prayer/ counseling, I decided to think of the pre-op weight loss as part of my recovery & beginning of a new life. I had surgery at 198, at a 33 BMI. Many (family included) would call me a crazy person for having WLS at that BMI. But, I know myself and know my history. I have since come to terms with the fact that WLS was simply a last chance scenario for me. My point is only you know you. I'm certain in time you will make the best choice for you.

Makes sense

PITA stalls!! Sounds like you are doing everything right . (Well w/ the possibility eating & drinking more might help). Hang in there, it will pass

Shared this with my husband who said we obviously need to work on procreating today... Thanks!!! BTW: Any word on if only 1 of the parents has WLS??

I Agree!!!! I was still making up my mind the day of surgery! The morning of surgery my husband and I were standing outside the hospital and he said to me, "You know you don't have to do this. We could go get Breakfast or go for a walk on the beach or something"... And I said, "no, I'm doing this". Only then did I know I had made my decision.

I was a 35 BMI w/ high blood pressure at the time they submitted my paperwork to my insurance. I was approved upon appeal.

I asked the surgery coordinator at work who said 330 is good if you are already a smallish C and want to become a Mid-D (whatever will look proportional to the rest of your body). But the main thing is how you feel when trying on the sizes. Definitely a good idea to take the samples home and test them out, if you can. BTW: I was a 40/42 E & now 36DD. When I reach my goal I will definitely be looking into a lift. (Shhh don't tell my husband. He has a thing about plastics which is hilarious considering where I work).

Are there others in your life who think you have a problem or just this 1 doc?

Really powerful article. Thank you for posting it.

Maybe you could let it go for today, but if it happens again (& it probably will since they seem hopelessly clueless), you could prepare yourself to tactfully address the issue with them.

This was hilarious!!! When people have said ridiculously insensitive things to me in the past I have silently reminded myself, "Water off a duck's back" now I'll just think they're "pig crap". Thank you!!

I would definitely have to go to Mexico for surgery if my insurance didn't approve me. I already owe over $50k in student loans so have no idea where I would find the extra money. Lotto maybe??

I have Cigna too. My surgery coordinator mentioned they are by far one of the more difficult insurances to work with. I was initially denied, but approved upon appeal. I hope your process is fast & easy.

Awesome!! Hot heels are a great NSV!

Heehee, JJ Fad "Supersonic" great blast from the past!