Im done mooing.

My best friend is getting sleeved January 7th and I am getting sleeved April 2nd. We sound just like you and your best friend. We met the summer before 7th grade and we were the only fat girls in our grade, so we stuck together. We hated that we were fat, but man we loved to have what we called "fat days" where we just ate everything that crossed our path lol. We had our babies together, we got divorced together, now we are getting on with our lives together. We are getting sleeved together and we are getting remarried a month apart. The greatest thing about all of this is that we have never really planned any of it. It all just always happened together lol. We are very excited to be moving on to this next step in our lives together. She is getting married May 2014, I am getting married June 2014, and I am hoping that our next babies will be born together and be best friends like our 4 year olds are. Having her do this with me makes me feel 1000 times better :-) I couldn't imagine having to do this on my own!

Having been 350 pounds when I graduated from high school, I can tell you it really friggen sucks having to try and squeeze into those rotten desks and EVERYONE notices that you don't fit.

I have a cousin who is just as heavy as I am. We are both over 400 pounds. I have only been able to carry one pregnancy close enough to term for the baby to survive. I am a good mom, own my own home, support my son without the help of dss, except for health insurance because my employer did not offer insurance. I have tried and tried to have more children. I have been pregnant 8 times. They all die. My doctor tells me every time that it's because I am overweight. Today I had to watch as my just as fat as me cousin gave birth to baby number 8. Her and her husband are homeless more often than not, sleeping in her mothers spare bedroom. They don't work. Their kids are always disgusting and injured. Right now her 2 year old has a broken arm. How come I am too fat to bring another child into my clean, loving home, but she can have 8 kids that she doesn't take care of after they aren't "cute" anymore? GRRRRRR Sorry, I just needed to get that out somewhere.