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I understand what you are saying and I do apologize to anyone I offended by what I said. Intamacy is a very hard thing for some to deal with. My husband and I love eachother very much and he does not want me to have the surgery for fear of loosing me on the table. Like many here he has no plans to leave the relationship he just does not like intercourse, and understandably so. I just have my treasure trunk.

That is my question... How does your body know when to stop loosing weight. Does anyone have any insight for me?

Write down every question you have. I forgot them all when I was in front of the doc and had to email him with questions.

I am thrilled for you. You can do anything you set your mind to and don't ever let anyone tell you different. Run your heart out.

Thank you Ghost. Until you have been molested you can never imagine what it has been like for someone that has and the emotional damage it does to them for the rest of their life. My husband cheated on me. People ask why I stayed with him. He did not do it to hurt me or to cause any pain to the marriage but simply could not help himself. people like him have a screwed up vision of what sex is, he could have sex with you 100 times and not have any feelings for you . He and I have never had a relationship based on sex, even when he was and I was 17. We only had sex a few times before he turned 18 and none at all on our wedding night. I have been with him for a long time and understand him, that does not mean that I don't miss him next to me.

I agree completely. I was a small A cup until I had my son. Then over night I went to a DD and never went down again. I breast fed him until he was mo old and then he went to the cup. My daughters were another story. Annie was 2 when she quit nursing and I was nursing Eli and Mary Elizabeth both together for mo Eli was almost 2 when I got her to quit and MaryElizabeth didn't quit until almost 3. So for years of my 16 years of being a parent I have had someone attached to my nipples. No wonder they are pancakes.

I am a patient of Dr. Alami :clap2: and want to know more people that have seen him. Pre-op, Post-op I don't care. I want someone to share with that knows my Doc.:whoo:

" Give him a blow job for heaven's sake." I have a little information for you. My husband was molested by his brother violently from the age of 2 years old to the age of 17 years old. In that abuse he had to endure anal rape and forced "blow jobs" as you put it. Two years ago we found out that our 14 year old son was forcing our 10 year old daughter into giving him oral sex. Do you really think my husband wants anyone in that area of his body. My husband and I do not have sex because he was really messed up from what his brother did to him and then finding out what his son did to his daughter. He also cheated on me and has a lot of guilt from that. S simple blow job does not fix everything and not all men enjoy that. I am sorry to those of you that may have been hurt by what has been said in this post but I feel it needed to be said .

My main problem with my boobs, other than they are to big, is that they are flat as a pancake after I take off my bra. They look great in a bra but oh my when I take off that bra my kids could hide under them :heh:and never be found. I would love to have them put back where they belong.

I am having surgery in South San Francisco at the Kaiser there with Dr. Alami. He is amazing.

I understand. I was wearing my bra to high and now this one fits correctly around the back. I just wish I could wear one of those cute demi-bras. My daughter just talked her father into buying her two of them. I objected but he said "no one will see her in them but her, RIGHT. If that is whet makes her happy then so be it." I think she is still to young at 12 yrs old to be wearing anything like that.

I am on the 1200cal meal paln and I walk 60 min twice a day for exercize. As if having four kids isn't enough exercize.

<p>I have Dr. Alami in SSf. I could fast track it and would have had all of it done in 2-3 mo, but what would I have learned from that. As it is I am learning how to eat properly and chew and not drink when I eat and all of thaat good stuff. Don't get me wrong I did think about it but then I really thought about it and decided they have us go through this process for a reason. So I am waiting with you. I am on the booking list for Jan 08 and I check the OR schedule every day so that I will know when Jan opens up and I will probably know that I am booked before they call me.</p>

I live in sac and have all my life. I work for Kaiser so I have to go toSF to get my band put on but Kaiser pays 100% for all of its members and Employees. Anyone elso go through Kaiser?

I am 5'6" and meat my 1200cal every day I have excelent energy I am also pre band

my husband and I have been together since he was 14 and I was 17, that is a long time 17 years. We have had a rough go of it. When we had been together 9 years he had an affair. He was with her for 6 months. Before that sex was great. Ever since that he has had no interest in sex what so ever. Our counciler says it is due to increadable guilt. I know he loves me to death and he did not do it to hurt me he did it because he is a man and men cannot help themselves sometimes. I know that he has not done anything since then and it has been 8 years. We have worked past all of it but the only thing that hurts is he doesn't want me. He works while I am asleep as a chef and I work at the hospital while he is asleep so we really don't see eachother much. I am very lonely and it would be worse if he didn't understand what he is doing. We have done "it" no more than three times a year since 1999. I love my husband and he does not mind cuddeling me and holding me but that is all I get.

That makes sense. I wish it would stop. I am getting smaller in the waist and butt but I cannot go down in shirt sizes because if the issue. I would love to fit into a 2x or a 22w-24w but they don't come bigger in the bust and smaller in the waist. I think we shoul start a line of clothing for big women that starts out at a 1 instead of a 1x. Give us some dignity and self respect, not an XXX

I was 105# when I got pregnant with my son in January 1991, at 7 and a half months I was 115#, 6 weeks later I delivered him i was 197# I gained it so fast that I never lost it.

I am pre-op and have lost a lot of weight. my problem is the more weight I loose the bigger my breasts get. I started out a 42DD and now I am a 44E. I thought you were supposed to loose breast mass not gain it. They are so heavy. Anyone else out there with this problem? Will it reverse itself ? Please let it reverse itself.:help:

I as well cannot wait to be overweight. January cqannot come soon enough

I want to know what happened!!! Sounds interesting.

Thank you. Am I over reacting?

Hi all I am scheduled for surgery sometime in January. I am starting to get things together so that I am not rushed. I tend to wait until the last minute for everythimng but I want to be sure I am ready in plenty of time so I have less to freak out about. What do I need to do before I go. Anyone with a time line that would be great. Anyone with a to-do list or a list of what to pack. Gosh I am rambeling aren't I? HELP.....:help:

We found out that there were a few of the problems a while earlier but we could live with the clubed feet and heart problems but at 25 weeks we found out about all of the other problems and decided that if she was going to live a life of pain then we didn't want to do that to her so we made the decision to deliver her early knowing that she would die. It WAS a hard decision being as young as we were, but we have gone on to have three beautiful daughters and our son that we already had and I am thankful every day that they are all healthy. My son has Tourettes but that is pretty easy to deal with now that we have practice with it. He was diagnosed at age six but started showing symptoms at age three so we have been dealing with this for twelve years and are used to his tics. The good Lord will only give you what you can handle and having three daughters with a Mexican father is a lot to deal with. Three princesses wanting attention from one man but he brought it on himself. i thank you all for the support . I come from such a large family that I have had the support for this from the begining and my husband is supportive. My Miquela (pronounced me-KAY-la) is in a better place now and I will see her again.:clap2:

Thank you , I do have good nurses. I am glad your niece is doing well fr herself. It is not easy and we tell our children not to make the same mistakes we did. Wait until the graduate from collage to get married and gave children. My husband tells our girls that if a man truly loves them he will wait until they are ready. Don't fall for the guy saying he loves them. We are doing our best. That is all I can ask for. I want m children to be happy, healthy, productive Americans.