LenRen25

Sounds delicious-look forward to trying it out!

I love the idea of a local chapter & am def. interested in joining if made available in my area...my surgeon's office stopped having support group meetings one month after my surgery. I spent the next several months flailing on my own, feeling very isolated, until I joined this site. I am glad to say that the feeling of connectivity I've experienced here has helped me feel grounded, and I am finally making some progress-I credit the inspiration I receive here for helping me get on the right path. The opportunity to enhance the support experience via face to face meetings would be so beneficial. I do not feel qualified to take a "leadership" role, as I am still struggling, and not a success story (yet!) but am willing to contribute anything I can offer if this gets underway in the south suburbs of Chicago ; ) what an exciting prospect! And the cruise idea? Woohoo! I'm in!

I'm 11 mos. out & my stomach growls when I'm hungry....much moreso as of late, since putting forth more diligent effort. I try to wait for the growl and use it as a guide to know when it's time to eat, instead of giving in to my "head hunger." For me, I find it a reassuring reminder that I'm finally waiting long enough in between meals instead of just eating whenev I want, regardless of true hunger.

Ugh....I'm in the Chicago burbs & this winter blows...literally & figuratively! But I am counting down the days til I take my 5 yr old granddaughter for her first trip to Disney World! 31 days woohoo! We may never come back to Illinois!!

That's the best outlook to have! Hope it all continues positively for u!

I didn't experience any pain either-went in for my surgery by myself, got a ride home that afternoon & was up and about entertaining & cooking for my sisters who came over to visit the very next day...had the procedure over my spring break, but really could have worked if I had to, easy peazy- you'll be fine! Good luck to you on the new start!

I'm on there too and would welcome the connection & camaraderie!! I got my daughter using it too, but she's actually on there to help herself gain weight...lol...she didn't inherit her mother's genes ; ) (my user name is same as here)

I'm on there too and would welcome the connection & camaraderie!! I got my daughter using it too, but she's actually on there to help herself gain weight...lol...she didn't inherit her mother's genes ; ) (my user name is same as here)

Reading your post about feeling "normal," finally, inspires me to keep working to get myself there, as the "baby" in a family of 6, including 2 beautiful, "normal" sisters, & an equally beautiful "normal" mother, I, the only abnormal, aka fat one, have never thought the day would come when I don't feel ashamed, self-conscious, or down right ugly in comparison to them. Even now, when my sisters, who with age have gained a little girth, I cringe when they bring up how "fat" they've become in front of me...I would be more than happy & proud to look as normal as either one of them....maybe one day...thanks for reminding me it's a tangible goal ; )

This is a longer one, but so powerful..I've had this on my fridge for years (along with sev. others, as I am somewhat of a quote collector : ) "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same." -Marianne Williamson

This is a test to check if this posts correctly, as I wrote an incredibly long 1st ever in my life blog that did not post!! Arghhh! I was so dismayed, I haven't yet attempted again, so this is merely a test post to make sure I'm doing it right...if so, I will try again!

" I may not be where I need to be, but THANK GOD I'm not where I USED to be." -anonymous.

" I may not be where I need to be, but THANK GOD I'm not where I USED to be." -anonymous.

I, too, saw that episode & felt a mix of emotions as I watched it. I found myself feeling disdain for her pompous attitude, and then reminded myself that this is a journey, not for a short stint, but an entire lifetime, and she simply was not ready yet for the commitment it will take to really change. I wasn't ready at first either, and it took me a long time to recognize that this is NOT an easy choice, regardless of what the uninformed public may think. It takes hard work EVERY DAY. Maybe one day, she'll be ready to embrace the opportunity given her...hopefully, she will. Each of us has our own unique path to truth, and maybe she has a few more lessons to learn before she gets there...until then, I hope she & her family can hold their own...

Tomorrow is a new day, with a new opportunity, and u are certainly not alone! If it were that easy, there wouldn't be a need for this support site! Be gentle with yourself, it's hard enough adjusting to this life change....no need to beat yourself up about a slip up. You recognized it & dealt with it! You will be just fine...wishing you a positive tomorrow!