Califdreamer

What I do when I think I'm hungry is keep my hands and my mind busy. I watch netflix now because tv has so many commercials and a lot of them are about FOOD! no cable, no commercials! Also have completed projects I had given up on. It's a win win situation. Get banded, have more energy, get more done in the house, way better sex life and things I didn't have 'time' for. It helps when my tv viewing was cut. Never realized how much tv I did watch! Plus I drink so much much more water than ever before. As for the "bad habits" well I like to think of them as different habits that no longer work for me. I need to learn different habits now. When I would say bad habits, it would make me feel like I was a bad girl for doing someting bad and needed to be punished (gain more weight). Then start the downhill spiral of being fat on purpose, not being good enough for whatever, being too dumb to know better and even worse knowing and still doing the wrong things, etc. When I changed my way of thinking, I changed too. Each day is a new beginning.

I did so much research before my surgery. I heard the horror stories, watched actual surgeries on youtube and weighed alol the pros and cons I could even imagine. I have 6 kids, 4 grandkids and a husband. This made me think a lot and after it was all said and done, I went ahead and took that big leap of faith and got banded. Never had a problem. It just took me 2 weeks to recoup after the surgery but then again, I always have had a slight reaction to anesthesia and the self healing stitches. They knew this beforehand, I was accomadated and had to have actual string stitches that had to be taken out later. Other than that, it's been a piece of cake! I have now lost 50 lbs! I for one, am so glad I did this! My regular MD asked for my surgeons name and asked if I would recommend him and I said of course! The more knowledge you have of what is happening, the better you'll feel. Like you say, there are risks in all our everyday lives yet we're still here! Who knows, maybe without the band, you'll have a much shorter life. You just never know.

Exactly, difa!

Hi Erica, I know how difficult it is when you hit a wall. I had my banding just 2 months before you and have hit my 50 lb loss and now have another baby step of 25. After that I still will have another 50. But I'll cross that bridge when I come to it. I have also hit something else too. That dreaded wall! I am a stay at home mom and have 6 kids and 4 grandkids now. 4 of my kids are still home although they are 2 teens and 2 adults. As long as they are still students, we let them stay here! I don't have twins but I did have 3 kids in less than 3 years and then 9 yrs later, I did it again! 3 in less than 3 yrs. I know...some say I was crazy but I would still do it again. Any way, I would like to be your buddy in this endevor but I live in Southern Calif. If you would like, we can at least e-mail or talk on the phone. Let me know and go from there. And congratulations on your loss! That's really great!

ok I will! But if I can't, I guess I will try out the one in Riverside. I lost 50 lbs so far but seem to have lost the momentum to keep going. I know that to succeed I need to keep in contact with people that have and are working hard at this!

I was banded 11/04/2011 and was wanting to join a support group in this area. Temecula to Hemet. Anyone know of one??? Would really appreciate it a lot! Thanks.

Maybe it's because of my age or for whatever reason. I don't hide it except from my parents but only because I want to surprise them in August. They live 400 miles away and have no idea yet. Anyway, first of all I would have down played it then probably would have given this co-worker a lesson on the different types of procedures. This way I would have been in control of the situation instead of giving her the upper hand. But like I said, that's just me. I know..I'm a control freak! Go to work with your head held high and keep up the good work. Let them keep following their 'diets' if it does them good. My mom always told us when we were in school, the "friends" there are just school mates. People at work are just co-workers. People you associate with outside of obligatory places are your true friends. (sounds better in our native language! LOL)

I have to admit that at first when we were talking and thinking about the band I didn't see it as a tool. I saw it as cheating. I have been banded since Nov.4th 2012 and am down 45+ lbs. I feel great and haven't told my parents, siblings or pretty much any one except a few close friends. NOT because of any other reason but because my parents live 400 miles away and the last time they saw me, last year, I was at my highest weight of 277 and wearing a 3x! Now I am in an extra large and I want so badly to surprise them this year! As soon as they see me then I will let everyone know. Now I see this as a tool only. I control what and how much I eat. I work out 5 times a week (although the last 5 I haven't due to health problems that have nothing to do with my band) and watch everything I eat. I do not feel like a fraud at all. I am the one doing all the work and it is not easy. Could I have done this without the band? Maybe BUT maybe the question here is...could I have kept losing without the band? Even when things were bad and I would pig out and I'd get depressed and eat more? Yet this band is a reminder to me that I am committed to this and I am a strong person and it's forever. If I overeat, I feel like I'm having a heartattack! I have 6 kids and now entered into the world of grandparenthood and the thought of a heartattack because of my weight makes me want to continue this journey. My band is a "friendly" yet painful reminder of why I did this and for whom (me first then my family). Each one of our journeys is different. And just like the doctor that has to tweak our fills, we have to tweak our minds and hearts, pasts and presents, hurts and joys and falls and goals.

Same here. I have an 11 cc band. First fill was 4cc, the second was 3 cc and the third was..can"t remember. I know it wasn't even 3 cc but I felt no restrictions until my 3rd fill. We'll see how it goes the next time.

my husband travels for work and so far there has been no problems. I have to fly out in July...just watch, I will probably have a problem. I am the lucky one that gets it all even when I travel with a group of people, a priest and a few nuns and I always get to be the lucky one. sheesh! Sometimes I think my group pays for these conferences just so I'll go and they breeze on by while I have to stay back for a bit! LOL!

hip hip hooray!!!! Congratulations!

What happened yeaterday is in the past. I haven't weighed under 200 in many many years and am so close now so I can only imagine how you're feeling. Don't give up! There are many of us who look up to the bandsters like you!

Same here. I was banded Nov 4th 2011. The burping was uncomfortable and still can't very well but isn't even uncomfortable any more and the yawning, well I chalked it up to the tube I had down my throat during surgery. It all went away after a week or so. It if keeps bothering you, then by all means call your doctor.

I tried these vitamins and supplements and I really try to give things the benefit of the doubt. But I spent a lot of money on the diet supplements, went home and openned them up. Ugh the smell to me was rancid. When I went back the next day, the woman refused to open the door and when I asked for a refund, she denied it and told me...good luck. You already opened the bottles. I took them home and figured well I'm stuck so I might as well plug my nose and try them. I did. Gagged. Threw up. Called the company and again I was told since I openned the bottles it voided the return policy. Wow. My son in law works for Nutralite and what a difference! Totally oposite everything. I've returned half empty bottles and have not had a bad experience with them at all. Now I am sure there are people that have good and haven't had good with Nutralite and Herbalife! But then this is my experiences. Thank God we are not all alike and we get to have choices.

I so glad for all of you! I also agree how nice to be able to go into a store that is not a "specialty" store for big women! I went from a 3x to an extra large so far. It's fun to go shopping with both my daughters and granddaughter. We can shop at the same store! My 17 yr old just dropped 10 lbs on her own and she's amazed that she lost it without even trying. I told her it's because my husband and I ate eating actual serving sizes that she and her brothers are also more aware of what they eat. This proves even more to me that of course we as parents are and should be examples to our children. It makes my heart good to see all 6 of our kids, married and teens, losing weight along side with my husband and me.