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Lapbandster

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  1. Yes, thankfully. I still had the deductible, co-pays, and coinsurance though.
  2. Yep NYU is exceptional in every way. Dr fieldings office is really amazing You're in amazing hands!
  3. By the way, you mentioned your surgeon has the band... I assume you used Dr. Fielding? I hear amazing stories about him and his practice. I think his patients success rates are exponentially higher than average because he has such intimate firsthand knowledge of the band. Even if your surgeon isn't Dr fielding, any surgeon who's had this procedure understands it better and therefore his patients have better outcomes. In any event, don't worry at all! Maybe reach out to some of the "old timers" on here and see if you guys can make a whatsapp group together so you can keep in touch without the negativity.
  4. Yikes that is awful. I remember a few years ago there was a lady spamming every post with awfulness. It stressed me out terribly, to be honest
  5. This is a very good point! Every story is different and people come here having lap band meltdowns without giving the whole picture. Were they banded properly? Did they have good follow up care? Did they follow their doctors instructions? Did they have the older problematic band put it? There are many factors that can cause lap band complications, so please just realize that it's best to take these posts with a grain of salt and realize that their situation is not necessarily "proof" that "you made a mistake"
  6. I don't think anyone is saying that you'll fail eventually or that you made the wrong choice. The OP asked a question and were all telling her our experience with the band. She asked and we answered. I understand what you're saying though--that this forum seems to be all band bashing... It sure feels that way sometimes! My doctor would always tell me to stop reading others stories on the internet and focus on ME and if I have any issues or concerns to speak to him directly. He also held support group meetings monthly for his patients.
  7. I'm not having reflux in terms of acid coming up, but I still feel like 50% restriction where the band used to be. Yesterday I threw up twice from it [emoji24] I think this type of stuff (as well as as reflux) goes away eventually, as the scar tissue from where band used to be eventually breaks down. At least that's what my doc says!
  8. Wow, I guess things have changed a whole lot. 6 years ago this was a surgery for weight LOSS and not weight MAINTENANCE. In fact insurance wouldn't even approve it unless BMI was high enough, and most surgeons wouldn't install it unless the person had 60+ lbs to lose.
  9. As others have said, the band is no longer the "miracle tool" it was once thought to be. In recent years it has been understood that 1/10 of bandsters will experience SEVERE complications and need it removed eventually (usually as an emergency surgery, which is scary). I am not talking about mild things like a slight slip, or some tightness and reflux... I am referring to erosion into the stomach, permanent damage to the esophagus (in the form of gastroparesis), phrenic nerve damage, vagus nerve damage... It all comes down to this one question: Do you want to be constantly worrying about this 10+ years down the line? Yes, this surgery is "reversible" and it's the least risky option at the OUTSET... but unlike with other WLS's the complication risk INCREASES the longer you are banded. Also, I don't know what your insurance situation is, but remember that for the health of your band, you will need to constantly be seeing your doctor/getting fills/barium swallow tests, etc. - this can add up very quickly - and that's with NO complications.
  10. Yes exactly, For me, the barium swallow exam showed zero problems and I was worried that insurance wouldn't cover removal since "everything looked perfect". But then I told the doc that I was feeling discomfort, tightness, throwing up at times, and had some reflux. Insurance covered it and I am so relieved. Having the band removed has been the best thing I've done in many years. I literally feel like I'm walking on clouds! Such a large weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
  11. That makes no sense to me. If you have had "years of complications" and the doctor recommends this, then insurance should cover it (slip or not!) You will need your doctors office submit the necessary authorization forms to your insurance company with the proper codes
  12. Wow what a saga! I'm glad to hear the band is out and that chapter in your life is over. What an experience!
  13. Dr. Fielding? Sent from my SM-G960U using BariatricPal mobile app
  14. Hi all! Soooo my story started a few years ago (I think 6). I was morbidly obese and felt disgusting. HW was about 244 lbs (and I'm only 5 feet tall!!). I didn't have the willpower to lose ALL that weight on my own and began to realize that I needed help. My mother had RNY a few years earlier and, while she DID lose like 75% of her excess weight, she never looked healthy to me. She suffered with anemia and vitamin deficiency, never worked out, had very saggy skin etc. When deciding on a bariatric prodecure I felt attracted to the lap band due to its reversability and low operating risks. The first surgeon I went to was VERY pro the LB- in fact I think he only performed this procedure. The second surgeon I consulted with was vehemently against the band and strongly advised me against it. This was years ago when then "anti band" sentiment was just starting. I ultimately decided on the lap band because I'm a nervous person in general and wanted the "easiest", lowest risk, and most reversable procedure performed. The surgery went well and there were no problems. I was able to go back to work within a day or two. I've heard some people say they have a "love hate relationship" with the band. For me it was a "want to love, yet fear relationship" meaning I WANTED so BADLY for the band to work. But I was constantly afraid of it slipping... Or eroding.. Or food getting stuck (in public!) ... Or suddenly feeling tight when traveling and I didn't have access to a doctor... Or not being able to afford the fills and fluoroscopys... Esaphageal dysmotility, distended pouch... Etc. My doctor had a strange way of doing fills. Unlike using fluoroscopys to help me find my "sweet spot" he would just put in the needle, fill the band, have me sit up, chug water, and then release some fluid. Once I felt the water go down he would remove the needle and tell me that im in the perfect zone. Boy did that cause issues! Getting lukewarm sink water down is simple... But getting in proteins and/or veggies down was much harder! I was constantly running back and forth to the doctor for fills/unfills (which wasn't cheap or easy! He was located 1.5 hours away from me and fills we're $50 plus insurance copay. So i was constantly taking off a half day of work and shelling out $80 for this.) When I'd see him he was thrilled! After all, I WAS losing weight... And getting fitter... But it sadly it had nothing to do with the band. I was just too ashamed to admit it. Rather, I worked out every day, ate under 1200 calories/day, and carb cycled. I was on a mission to prove to the world that I COULD lose weight, and that I didn't get cut up and have a foreign object placed in me for nothing. It was sad for me, and I really did feel alone... But I made it work and got used to chewing my food up a ton, taking tiny bites, drinking a lot to get the food down. I went from 244 to 178 and was happy. I was far from skinny... But I really felt good. Fast forward about 5 years!!... I got married, moved to NY and mostly forgot about my band. I actually gained some weight back after the wedding, but started Medifast/optavia and lost 40 lbs. I was good... Until the heartburn started. My previous doctor warned that any heartburn can either be the symptom OR cause of a slipped band. I went to a new NY surgeon the next day to get all the fluid removed. A day later I felt mostly better but still tight. Foods were getting stuck and being that there was no fluid in there I was nervous. Bands that are too tight can cause a slip. My husband and I are trying to get pregnant and when I asked my surgeon what happens if the band slips/erodes during pregnancy, she just said "things can get complicated and more risky for both you and the fetus" That's when i just realized that I'd HAD IT WITH THE BAND!! I could no longer live with device that caused me so much stress, fear, and didn't even work in the first place!! (that night I went to a wedding and took a bite of chicken which got stuck and had me dashing to the bathroom and vomiting. This was simply no way to live, yet a common occurrence for me). Long story short, today I got my band removed and I FEEL SO RELIEVED! I am in practically zero pain and feel like a massive weight was lifted off my shoulders. I'll do another post about the removal process because this is already wayyyyy too long!! TLDR: Didn't have any MAJOR complications with the band, but very relieved to have it removed! It may be a less risky, reversable procedure on the outset, but the long term risks of complications are fairly high and can be nerve racking.
  15. Sometimes my band aches a bit when I push my stomach around it. I always thought it was normal lol
  16. If he is unable or unwilling to change his eating behaviors then certainly he should get the band removed. He is at major risk of a slip/pouch dilation/esophageal problems. The band is no longer considered safe as long as a patient is not compliant And on top of that he seems to be miserable with it. I know foot addiction is a tough thing to watch, but I don't think keeping the lapband is a solution Just my .02 Hope everything goes well!
  17. Your not his mother and your not his doctor. Your his girlfriend, it's your job to be supportive of what he chooses to do with his body
  18. The bright side is that you had immediate relief after surgery! That does not seem to always be the case. And yes, why fills are $150 is beyond my comprehension. Really does seem excessive
  19. Thanks for sharing! Are you doing well now? Have you had any permanent effects from the lapband even after the removal? I am asking because I just may be in the same position as you and need a removal. So devastating! And yeah, no one understands the emotional roller coaster tied into this
  20. Revisions cannot always be done at the same time. It depends how badly the bands damaged your stomach
  21. Thanks for the update! Not sure whats scarier: The symptoms you described, or the Dr. thinking it's unrelated to the lapband
  22. Keep us posted on how the surgery goes!
  23. I am also having issues with my band. What I find interesting is how OVERLY CONFIDENT the surgeons are when discussing a surgery that there isn't THAT much research on. (I think we have maximum 15-20 years of research, and we didn't have real reliable data until about 10 years ago since it was such an uncommon surgery. That's my opinion at least) My surgeon was so pumped for me to get the lapband and minimized the risks -Now I am reading that 40-50 percent of lapband patients get the bands removed within 10 years (easy to believe based on the amount of posts in the complications forums) -It is linked to esophageal dysmotility - Scar tissue builds up around the band making the removal surgery much more complex than the insertion - The scar tissue can build up so much that it can cause permanent restriction even once the band is removed I went into this thinking that it was GREAT because it can be "reversed" if needed. That is not the case. I personally doubt I will recomend this surgery, and am hoping to get my band removed because the more i read the more I feel that my band is a "ticking timebomb" and that something will eventually go wrong. Why wait until it becomes an emergency?
  24. Interesting! I think it has to do with scar tissue buildup putting pressure around your esophagus Hopefully it will go away but if not it might be. Blessing lol. The benefits of restriction without the complications of a band
  25. May I ask why it was removed? I'm curious because I'm having issues as well And I think we got banded around the same time

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