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Hi there....Its a mindset I had too. I wanted people to like me for me--even when I reached my highest weight of 317. Now that I am down to the 220 area-It's not bad. People in the USA are sometimes suspicious of sudden weight loss. Many have not caught on to the weight loss surgeries or good and positive weight loss. When you start to get smaller-many suspect other negative effects of why it is. You have pass over that and move forward for your best interest. Think of some of the nicer places to go and meet new people. It will not be all about romance at first. It'll be about you as a person. Before you know it-you're going to have new friends and possibly a new love...But time is what we deal with...

Hi there...I have been mising in action for maybe 3 months. Trust me I have not fell off of the plan. I am going strong and the weight loss has slowed a bit--but with 54 pounds gone--I am one of the happiest people around... So I am here and I hope to offer some more input as the time goes on...

Merry Christmas to all who see's this page-!! Today I got a rude awakening of my old life. Me and my kids got invited by a family where we live at. I got to the party and "oh Lord"--not a skiiny or small Woman in sight. The only small people were the girls who were 11 to 15--except one. You would think this young "woman" was all of 25--she was just 14 and maybe somewhere about a size 22. I've seen her before--but never all of her relatives. I am so thankful for the "Lapband" surgery. I am now 50 and no one thought so. I just hit my 54 pounds loss plateau. I am not struggling at all--but I know I will miss a few of my Gym days--due to the kids being home and the Gym not having a full schedule. But I saw so many Women today who was so large. I mean--ladies who was no less than 16 and close to a size 30. Yes--I know ladies sizes from being married quite a few years. I had to just look and say "Wow"--to myself-! People asked me--why was I so quiet. I said--I don't drink or smoke. I don't play dominos with the guys--I find it boring. So I found myself in the living room watching TV with all of the larger ladies. Now I used to have a beer or 2 sometimes--but since the 6th month of my lap band post op--I had to re-think my theory on that "every now and then beer". I have just gotten to a point of true dedication but it still needs lots of work--trust me. I have one area that needs a boost. That area is me giving 5 days for the work out instead of 4 or 3. I have now made my schedule to move into weight lifting--light weights--trust me--but there will be some weights in my gym program as of Jan-3rd-2008.I am hoping to keep it at no more than 160 lbs. I don'twant to bulk up--I want to refine the muscles and keep the weight loss going as much as I can. As I close this little letter here. I was thinking--"Oh My God"--"Was this me back in the day? (10 months ago and before the surgery) I saw people piling the plates up-then asking me--"where is your food? I simply said--"Where can I put my food? I had the weight loss surgery--a few months ago". I heard--"oh--ok... But I saw the plates eaten that were piled up and then saw the same folks--warm up pie and cake. Then second plates and for some--3rd plates with the same consistancy. I almost dropped to my knees and said--"Thank You Lord--! I feel sooo much better now that I am lighter in weight. Now looking at the ladies & men who were 80% much younger than me--I know--my woirk has to get done and my new life will need lots of motivation to keep it going...Lee:scared::notagree

Hello....I am only 43 pounds lighter now--it's been 6 months.(March 28th-2007--banded) I am at the average of 7.2 pounds per month. I am not exercising as much as I'd like to, due the heat. I was riding my bike 3 to 5 days a week, but it's time to move away from that walmart bike- then-into a bike shop maybe--($200 to $400 price range). It will not be the best bike--but better than what I have now....If I can at least get myself back in motion of 3 to 5 days every week--I am sure--I can be closer to my goal by March--(107 pounds) Since now we're headed to the cooler months--well, lets hope so....This weekend of October 6 and 7th(2007)---it's forecasted for the low 90's...So is Global Warming real or what??:whoo:

I think the Man is sorry...You think you'd be sorry if your life was waiting on prison time? How about losing up to 100 Million dollars? I'd be soooo sorry and almost kissing the comissioner's feet. His worry needs to be on the Judge---whether he is going to allow him to do 1 year or 5 years... Dog fighting is very active in the "hood". Now I think it's creepy and sick--but I still see the young teens and young adults with the pit bulls--then they are gathering up. Before you know it--they walk up the street and who knows where they go. But it's dog fighting no doubt. It's a big deal in the south and part of the northern states. I am not saying it's right--because I love dogs and some cats. I'd rather have a German Sheppard than a pit bull anytime. Simply put--the PETA should get a check for at least $500,000 from M. Vick--then have him do 250 to 500 hours of community service-which should include the TV commercials about "Dog Fighting" and it's many cruel tactics...

Hey there...I have not been here for sometime now. I had my last fill on August 1st. That was my 3rd fill. I think it was a good thing. It's a crazy thing. I have days when I am full quickly--then there are days now when food doesn't matter. I was shocked to know that this would occur and I would not be hungry. I then do the broth and mixed veggies that are forced down. I was at 275 when i started and I was 238 on August 1st. If my calculations are right--I should be at about 229 pounds. I figured out my weight loss is about "2.33" pounds per week now. So that would give me around 8.33 pounds lost. I know I was getting compliments which gave me the big head for a time--hahahahaha. Now the strangest thing is going on.I have gotten compliments from many of the older Women--ages 55 to 65--mmmmm....It's ok==I'll take it as it comes...If I am about 229--I still have about 66 pounds to lose. With 19 weeks left to the year of 2007. I could easliy lose the weight. I am not in a rush--If push my weight loss to 2.9 to 3.3---I could get rid of 55 to 63 pounds. I had quit the biking outdoors--due to this intense heat. But I started again this week. It's hot and sweaty--it make me weak--so my water intake has increased and protien. I realize--I need to push my protien levels much more than I have been. It'll happen--if not--I will make it by March 2008...

Mr Yo, thank you so much for your openess. Age is not a big thing for me either. But there are people who treat it as such. We must ask why are the people in the poorer nations are dealing with the openess too. They seem to not let age get in their way when in Love. Many realize how short life can be--then throwing in age--it's going to be crazy. I seem to enjoy two sides of the coin. I like the ladies who are in their 30's-40's and a few who are now 52 to 60. (Very few in the mid twenties--but there are exceptions) Strange--huh??? But age matters not--if we all wait and see--the same age we place stop signs in front of--will be the same age we'll be one day. Then possibly having a crush on someone younger. Is the time for Older Women and Younger Men being together? I say---YES-!!! It doesn't really matter...LOVE is the Key:help:

:faint:*Hey there again.....I am a 50 year old Man who made the choice of becoming a single Parent once me and the ex-wife broke up. It was a well discussed decision to say the least. With my ex-wife leaning heavily that I do this--since both of our kids are boys. My Journey started in July 2000. Here I was with 21 month old son and a 4 year old older son. I had no idea of what I could do with them, but as the time went along--I learned and I am still learning. I thank God for my Mother who paid close attention to me as a child, teaching me to cook and wash. Along with many other household duties. I am the eldest of 7 kids she had. So I was her helper for many years and much of the lessons stuck like glue. I live 1300 miles away from my sisters and brother salong with my Mom being there too (New York). I live in the northwest part of Mississippi (Hernando) about 17 miles south of Memphis, Tenn. How do the Women feel about Men who are single Fathers? *Oh yes--I am very lucky with the way I do. I was injured an my Job--had back surgery. I have been out of work since 1998. Thank God I was an Army Soldier--who had the same issues in the Army. It's not the greatest living--but my children do well.... *This is not a new subject to me, but I still have issues with the many crazy questions I am getting from some single Women or Mothers with kids.:help:

Green...I have to thank you for such a well put together response. As I was saying--we people--either white or black--have fears that are unfounded. Why is that? As I mentioned in a another page--mmm page 8 of this. Two ladies told me of why they refused to let their sons play tacke football. These are children who are from age 7 to 12 years old. The ones who go to school with the white, hispanic and Asian kids. I am told by both of my sons--9 and 11--they hardly speak on the white and black issues. An example was...I was going to a football for my son last year. He said he wanted to show me his "new" friend after the game. My oldest son added the same comment. Now what I'm about to tell you--some of you are not going to think it's true. I met 2 little girls, about 8 and 10 at this time. Both had long hair and some nice Parents who accepted the change in the views. Both of the little girls were white with blue eyes. One lady smiled so much--I thought they was going to push them both together. The 8 year old girl was chasing my son--hitting him. An old way of saying--"I like you". We're too far gone from the 1960's. I was even asked--was I ok with that? I said--This is no longer our time, kids don't deal with the problems we once did back in the late 60's and 70's. In fact--I had no comment--it was ok. We're no longer marching on Washington. But we still have a lot of things to deal with--such as the Micheal Vick problems. But we face much pressure to be normal. But many of our Black men get Demonized and make bad choices in our lives. We have to wake up and realize Education is the key. Part of this is stop bashing others because we all have different opinons on life. It's time we air our thoughts, our fears and many things we keep buried in the back of our minds. Truly they come out in our speech patterns and ways in which we guilde our children. Today--both of my sons have cell phones which i brought them. I wanted them to have a means of talking to their friends without tying up the home phone. Plus--since I'm one Parent--I can't be at my sons football games and places where my oldest will be playing in the band. But-what I wanted to say--most of their friends are white. Do I care?--no I don't. On another Point---some of the Parents wonder--How could i do this as a Black Man. Be a responsible Parent...look further--it's a another forum I'll write....

Deb the LPN....yes I couldlose a lot more weight if that chip was erased. But with people like you around--how can I lose anything having to do with my wieght or the weight of your racism. Look at the world--we are at war now with the brown skinned people over the ideas of religion--radical--but the mere far it's a war. Just because I think things and I feel secure in discussing them--it does not mean iam a bad Man or Father. In fact I have two sons who deal withthis issues everyday. My son who is in the 3rd grade--sits in his class and see's nothing but white faces. He is among only 3 kids who are black. Now I am going to be honest--it's because of my sons straight A's. I work with him and some kids make fun of him--all because of his being in an all white class. Same goes for my 6th grader. In fact both of them are made fun of--because they speak-"White". Which is saying they have much better English that many of their black counter parts. There are people now scared to step away from the norm. I live in a neighborhood that is 99.9% black. I talked to a few and they made progress this year. My sons who is 8 plays football--again his team is all white with only 2 being black. Some of the Mothers I know told me she was holding her son back from playing--just because of that reason. Scared to let their sons play due to all of the whiteness. I talked to the two people--two single Mothers in fact. I asked--what are you going to do in 7 to 10 years when your sons want to go to college, but the college is racially mixed? How would that child grow? His mental abilities are stifflied due to him living up to his Mom beliefs of being scared of white People. Aww yes--many Black People are still scared of dealing with the racial overtones of some other races. That is not a chip on my shoulder. I am in full agreement with that. I see the jails and I see many black faces there--even juvenile detention. How could I know this? I was there to visit and show my own son--there is another way. But as long as we have people like Deb--we are going to be lost as a group of Americans. Look, but don't talk about it. Love--but don't mention our differences. If I have a chip on my shoulder--why are sooooo many White Women falling in Love enough to have a Black Husband and severaL MIXED RACE KIDS? Explain this---is this me having a chip on my shoulder or a fact of life? Get into some Hip Hop...Check out the Album..Fear of a Black Planet...the fear is evident with our political policies and our ways of living....Too many People like Deb have the thought process that we should hide our feelings, hide anything having to do with our past. We are going to progress no matter what you say or think. Many of my friends happen to be not Black. I am a Black Man and I know you and many others would hate me--just because of that. Well I am going to let you do your job. Please hate me---if you have 15 more friends--advise them to hate me too. I will sleep so much better

Jacki, Jacki--What has come over you? Did she have green blood running through her veins? Did she possess 3 legs or 4 arms? I am sure she was all human, just that her skin is black. There are something beautiful about us Black People. We come in all shades and colors. There are many who can pass for white ot hispanic, some of us are deep dark chocolate--but whatever shade we are--it's not impossible to have a relationship with us. The only reason I'd say be careful is--if that person carries the HIV virus. Otherwise--let's come into the modern times.Much of where the workld is going--tends to be on our side of the house anyway. No, I don't mean to sound big headed or even crazy as some have called me. People are rapping, dancing in commercials to get peoples attention to buy almost anything. Other things are styles in clothes and shoes. Then one of the biggest inventions you use daily--invented by a Black Man--do you have any idea of what it is? The freezer, refrigerator, air conditioning...get it..So can a Black Man or Black Woman be all that bad? Stop buying in the media showing all of the black people on drugs or getting busted. Have you noticed--there is about 30 to 31 million black People in the USA? With the rest of the population being 270 Million? We shouldn't be loked on as rapists, theives, drug users, sex crazed people. We're as normal as apple pie. Each race has it's own defining qualities. So deverse--it makes a lot of people scared. We all have many problems too--but that is the thing about all people from all races...

Exactly "Green"..People have this feeling that if race is not discussed--it's not here in each of our lives. For instance--a lady made it known that she had some interest in me. I am a 50 yr old Black Man, her a 47 yr old White Woman. In fact I liked her too. But after a couple of conversations--she was trying to figure out--how will she tell her daughter about me--what would her friends say and more. She said it was best to not go down that relationship road--because her friends and family would make her feel a lot of paon because of her choice. I told her something the last time we talked--she needed to come into thr eyear 2007.Your life is connected to others, but your choices of love is not. If you find someone to make you happy--why place a caution or stop sign up--because of what others "Think". I let her know just the simple thing on having weight loss surgery has changed many peoples opinion on me. One of the biggest things I've heard was--"Aren't I scared of what others will think of me--because I looked like I was on drugs"...I simply said--when I have insomnia--it's not because of them. I sleep well after i get tired--lol....

HI there...I have not been here in about 2 or 3 weeks...I have finally gotten my 3rd fill and it's a tough one. I can't hardly eat--but the good thing--I'm loving it. I would have never thought---an apple sauce would fill me up in the am...I eat one 4-oz cup at about 5:15...then a second one around 7:15. After that I can take any required medication and my vitamin B complex...Somedays--I can't eat at lunch time--I just can't or don't have an appetite. I keep water going in the system for sure. But every other morning--walking the treadmill, lifting light weights....Then coming home by 9am...sometimes I'll get a nap. Since there has been the triple digit temps-my kids have asked for sandwiches--telling me it's too hot for dinners. So now the freezer and deep freezer stays full. Who would have known---my food bill would be this low? My kids are 9 and 11 yr old boys. They say--they are happy with the food they have. They have their days when I wonder--where does all the food go to. I have had days when I bake two medium pizza's--yes two and the boys eat 85% of them. Leaving maybe 3 peices. I have eating some pizza--but surprisingly--the top only. The break= not my style. It gets stuck and it hurts too bad going down--so I avoid it all together. Will I make that magical 3.2 pounds a week? So far I figured out my average for the past weeks--starting April 1st--I have averaged 2.25 each week.My goal is to get to that elusive--3.0 to 3.2...The Dr said that may be too much.But if I continue with this small meal plan....it'll be there for sure with the third fill making me go hard with the loss of weight. Well in my last statements...People I know hardly know what to say. Some say the smarter things. But somehow there is a large majority who say the stupidest things. From Drug use, crack, am I sick from HIV---am I scared of what others are saying about me? I said to the Guy who asked that---"Hey--I don't know you people anyway--I just live here in the apartment complex and I sleep very well.....

Hey there my name is Lee......I live in Hernando, MS-a tiny town about 10 miles from Southaven,MS I got banded on March 28th-2007 at "St. Francis Hospital" of Memphis, TN. I have gotten 37 pounds lost so far. I am about to get my 3rd fill on August 1st. Dr Weaver will be doing it. I've already got 1st fill of 1 cc and the second.6 cc. I wonder what the third one will be. Seems like my fill lasts 4 weeks each. I am not dissappointed--but I wish the weather was a lot better. It's been so hot riding my boke--I had to stop. The Gym here--has no daycare--so I am stuck until August 13th--when the kids go back to school. Then I'll have to crank it up again...I'm ready...Lee

You should watch who you vote for--You may have a Black Man running the Government very soon. It's all over the USA--it's called "Change". I thought of what I said and stand by it. Look at the Government now. We have people who have been fooled and tricked over so called WMD's...Oh please...Many People went crazy with the so called "Patriotism". But--fooled they were. I wasn't fooled at all. I spent many years in the Military to know better. Each time you speak on my 3 ex-wives. It tells me you have no real ammo to say besides that. I am at peace with that fact. My kids will be well taken care of--so let's not worry about that. Real Issues for Real People--none of you have put up any credible argument at all

Tommy O...you are Dead Wrong-!!! I can ramble and do what I want in a conversation. This does say rants...I know exactly what I am doing. I have gotten many people up in arms over a very same thing. The problem with many Americans is--they can't stand change. The problem with a lot of people--they dislike people who are different. It has to be seen and done over and over--then finally they say---"oh ok, it's ok that he or she is different-cool". Plus I am not trying to flow to your standards at all. I don't use drugs or alcohol and I don't smoke--nothing. It said--point blank--off subject area.. So now you telling me each time you open your mouth or mouths--you've said all of the political correct things? Many years ago--people could not get with the immigration and now it's a big issue. But aren't we all immigrants for some reason or another? We have many mixed comments here--but I stand firm in my beliefs...

Sorry all of you ladies are upset and possibly jealous about Men who go to other countries to get the Women. So what if an Asian Woman wants to clean, cook and probably make my sex life better. Isn;t that what a Woman is supposed to do for a Man? Oh--you think all Men want a Woman to come in and raise his children so he can run the streets? Nix---get it right--I am not that type. But you can bet--you are jealous and very [issed off as I am reading here. Making persoanl attacks instead of answering the question at hand. I asked a question about Filipino Women making better wives. There is the name calling starting--showing me that many of you are so mad--at who? At what? You are the people who started to be lazy and went all away from what a married Woman should be. Now that there are people in the world who's still doing a lot of the old world or old fashioned things--you're mad. Oh well--no wonder there are no decent women in america. The new law that "Women Congresswomen" enacted told a big fabricated lie. Saying the Foriegn Women must be protected. So they create a law to keep the Men--mainly "White" Men from marrying these old fashioned Women. Then they come to America and you hope sooo much that she get Westernized or Americanized quick--so you don't feel so all alone. The Feminists--the ones who find themselves all alone and want to get all new members to help and unjust cause. One day you will wake up and wonder--why are so many Men with the Asian, Europan and Black or Hispanic Women. Call it what you want--but you are not in control anymore. You lost that long ago. Too bad your eyes are soooo blind to see the error or your ways. Just like we are saddled with the term "Obesity"--many of us are "Legally Blind" to the facts of life. That life--you will take the misunderstanding to your very grave. Many of us Men want a good Woman--but now you are making the case--we just want a sex slave--maning we want good sex. Saying we want a maid--nope--we want old fashioned Women and if that hurts--suck it up. Last thing---Thank God you don't run the Government. Close to 50,000 or more marriages still take place each month. There are so many Men getting married to foriegn Women now--there is a backlog of 1 year--just to get some of the Women to America? What's up with that? Then coupled with the INS and people who approve passports--it's now longer...Wake up--you all have been asleep for far too long

<p>Tommy may be intelligent--but you women played right into my hands. Sorry you had so much fun--but it's going down in America and there is nothing you can do about it. I see it even in the country area's of Mississippi--White Women--Black Men. Oh I have to be prejudice all of a sudden Just because I wanted to get your imput? Come on--it's a fact--a now reality of life. So what if my mind wonders and get to you. So--what if you're pissed off. --Ph Boo Hoo---you can now cry me a river and if you want to--cry me an Ocena. Yes I brought you a controversal subjects to the forefront--I guess in your little lives---you always go to sleep and wake up and as long as it doesn't effect you--you're cool. <But I was going to give you a reason also why the Black Men are being drawn to the White Women. Nothing prejudice on my part either. We are now going to see the new brown nation starting to emerge. The Black Man is starting to understand there is more of a choice when it comes to a mate and procreation. We are seeing that our choices are no longer limited and in many cases---not limited to American Women. But as I see--there is a lot of Pissed off people out here. So don't blame the messnger--blame it on what your beleifs have been for 10, 20, 30 ad sometimes 40 or 50 years. Stop making all of the excuses and get real. Again--call me a name, 5 names and so on. But I bet you always thought it was you Women who ran things--sorry--mistake--it's not:faint:

I want to thank you all for your being insode of my head. Even as I tried to spark some debates--there are people now saying i am sooo horny--with what?? Now you say--I want a Woman doing my housework--as if my ex-wife did it at all. But--I see the deal--you're upset that a Man has brain or idea's....Thank you all again for having me on here---No more posts for braibless person I am---Oh yes--I am sooo horny--let's not forget that too...Last thing--I live in a place with 90% single Women--if I was horny--I am sure I could get the hook up--right?

The last two entries are so correct when I was in a larger city. I moved here and my lord--it seemed like I have a desease or something. But that doesn't mean I am living in never ever land. I just may live in a place that too small and many of the ladies are different--maybe that is what it is. Don't worry--I'm not discouraged at all...things all work themselves out in time...

It's July 16th--I may need a new fill. I now feel I ate more to fill up and I will ask for a new apointment. I'll wait out the week and see how I feel...It's getting harder to fill myself--but I will see what happens,,,

There you go--Susan you are there with the real ballistics..I have written the different threads to spark a lot of controversy. Never did I mean to harm a soul. What's wrong with raising our levels of consiousness? If I met a woman of any race, color, creed or religion--it really doesn't matter. If we all follow certain social trends--it's all ok. But once we step away from our "Racial Boundries"--we find out many of the people feel proud to walk up and say dispicable things. I am so glad--My skin is thick... Edie--you like being who you are--stay that way...makes the world a better place that we're all different.

Now I am a fruit loop and not a real man..mmmm I guess I will accept your name calling and become your B****--right? NOT-!!! That is why it's a debate area. I see that the few who's responded don't know what a real debate is. I am sure--you're going to both find real Men, someday.... I won't go any further--since there is 75% ladies with the lap band and only 25% Men who got the Lap band done. I am so proud to say--whoever I am --I feel good raising my kids alone without the so called Women here--

It clearly says- "Off -Topic Debate Area".Off topic means--anything not having to do with the Lap Band. Come on--sisn't my controversal subject having to do with life it's self? Each subject area--I've experienced in my klife of 50 years. I've dated the White Women, Asian, dated Women since I am a single Dad and more. Why can't I wake up the people who is consious in our Lap Band area? Oh yes--if I do lapband, lapband, lapband---that will make you happy?? It says--off topic--which means I can do as many as I can--when I can...It seems to me that there are many people here of different races...How do I know--because I know a few on here in person