Crazy Day

I only told my mother, brother, and my aunt that I was doing the sleeve (aunt still not sure.)I really couldn't tell my father cause he shuts down on me when I talk about. The reason is My mother had the roux en y in '05 and less than a year my mother left him. so weight loss surgey, bad taste in mouth. My dad decided stay home today, and when I went to grab a bowl of cereal, he asked " Have you decided on what surgey you doing?" I was shocked. so I told him about the sleeve and my reasons.He said that he support me. How happy I am about that, I feel... i don't know, weird about it. I just hope i'll get over the overthinking.