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Bit by bit... or is it Bite by bite?

They say we didn’t gain all our weight overnight and therefore we shouldn’t expect to lose all the weight overnight. And as we get closer to our goal it gets harder and harder. It becomes a very frustrating thing.

 

Then when we finally reach our idea weight, we have to maintain that weight FOR LIFE! No relaxing allowed. Because it will creep back on bit by bit.

 

That is where I am at, I let my eyes do my measuring and bit by bit the sizes kept getting bigger…..

 

Then I let myself make some not so good choices. Oh I can have a little of this and a little of that, I’m not trying to lose weight, just maintaining so it won’t hurt…..

 

Guess what, I am pushing that five pound threshold that my doctor said I should keep. Yep up five pounds from my goal.

 

Oh, I could sit here and say I don’t understand. I haven’t changed my eating or my exercise. But I did change things (slightly). A little bigger size of this and that. Extra treat here and there. Skipping on this exercise or that. It all adds up and at the end of the day I have gained five pounds over the last month.

 

Now what, cry in my Wheaties? Nope, I get my a s s back on track. Weigh my food, eat my protein first, drink my water and exercise every day. And guess what, I will have to do this for the rest of my life.

 

So for anyone thinking that the Band (or any WLS for that matter) is a quick fix, guess again! It takes change and lots of it, and it takes a lifetime commitment.

 

I’m in it for life and bit by bit I will get these five pounds back off.

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Thats All Folks

LAP-BAND Patients

These are extremely wise, honest words.

When I finally get to my goal weight I plan on giving myself the same 5 pound threshold. I think that's the mistake a lot of people make- they hit goal then get too relaxed. "oh it's only a 7 pound gain, no biggie" and "I'm still only 11 pounds from goal". Before they know it, they're now 40 pounds above goal and are going "I don't get it, I didn't change anything, how did I gain?!"

I hope others read this blog post. It's excellent!

A New New Dawn

Gastric Sleeve Patients

Excellent post, my friend!

Thank you for sharing and being candid about your journey. I do think many of us are waiting to "get there" (at goal) and not realizing that our journey doesn't end there.

Our health and happiness is so well worth it though.

♕ajtexas♕

LAP-BAND Patients

These are extremely wise, honest words.

When I finally get to my goal weight I plan on giving myself the same 5 pound threshold. I think that's the mistake a lot of people make- they hit goal then get too relaxed. "oh it's only a 7 pound gain, no biggie" and "I'm still only 11 pounds from goal". Before they know it, they're now 40 pounds above goal and are going "I don't get it, I didn't change anything, how did I gain?!"

I hope others read this blog post. It's excellent!

Trust me it can creep back on very quietly!

chasingadream

LAP-BAND Patients

Not even banded yet...but taking notes...lots and lots of notes from seasoned, serious, hard-working and honest bandsters.....

THANK YOU!

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