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Suddenly Nervous

Well, after months of feeling confident and brave as can be, today the nerves hit like mad. I am happy and I am looking forward to the changes ahead but I got really nervous about the fact that the day after tomorrow I will be in surgery having a procedure I have dreamed about done. I feel like crying. In fact, it is right there on the cusp of happening. Maybe I am nervous that it won't work for me like it has for others, maybe I am scared to finally be the size I was in my 20's, maybe I am just a typical person who should be a bit nervous and I daresay scared of going into surgery. I am usually calm as can be about these things, but this is a life changer. I will be fine. I am just getting the pre-banding jitters I guess. I need to breathe and clear my head of negativity and know that I will be fine. My boss came by the office to tell me that if it was okay with me that he and a few others would like to pray with me for a great outcome and success. I was touched by the gesture. He told me that he felt that this surgery was going to be a major blessing that should be embraced and he never talks much. I think maybe that was just something I really needed to hear. I hope that it helps anyone who reads it here too. This is a blessing to be embraced. I wish everyone great success in getting healthy. I will check back in tomorrow and right before surgery. I will keep you posted.

 

Take care,

Jen

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Cinderella9920

LAP-BAND Patients

I was so scared that i backed out and waited a year to have it done, wish i had just gone ahead and did it in the first place. i think it is normal feelings you are having. i am glad i did have my band but only wish i had done it at the earlier appt. gl

bluetigereyes

LAP-BAND Patients

Jen, I am right there with you. I, too am getting banded on the 22nd and I feel the exact same way. My only issue is I have not told anyone at work that I am having it done. I work at the hospital where the surgery is being performed, so I am a little timid about letting everyone know.

DiMarie

LAP-BAND Patients

I am getting nervous too! I get banded on the 23rd, start clear liquids tomorrow. I worry about not being able to sleep. My surgery is not until 3pm on Friday, I wish it were earlier in the day, but I have no control over that. I have told most people about my surgery except 2 of my sisters and my brothers. I don't communicate with them much, so I didn't feel the need. My 2 sisters are thin and have always pressured me about my weight. The family of origin issues seem to hang on forever. I am excited about my new life,

Doriehi

LAP-BAND Patients

I was banded on Dec 12 at 2:00 pm. Don't worry. They will take good care of you before and after. The operating room was really cold but they gave me a warm blanket. The antithesiologist had me sign a paper that if they needed to give me blood, they could. She put a mask over my face and said, "Goodnight" When I woke up, I was in recovery going to my room. No Pain. I got up to walk and used a pillow on my stomach when I coughed. I went home the next day. No real pain, just soreness. Have a Happy Band Day.

GermaineF

LAP-BAND Patients

I so feel what you are going through, and trust me it's normal. I was banded on 12/16 and i cried a few days before. I think i'm on day 5 post op and i'm feeling pretty good. keep us posted

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