T.O.M.

:cry Boy, it's that time of the month and I've ate everything in sight. Not much of anyone thing, just a bite of everything. I have a lot of stress in my life right now too and I think that makes things even harder. I feel pretty restricted but I have an appt. for another fill and by the time that gets here I'm sure I will go ahead and get another one.

Family life is really rocky right now and I don't know why. It seems like every since I got banded my husband hasn't felt the same about me. We were childhood sweethearts and the only people we've ever dated was each other. We've been married for 25 years and some days I think it just wants to be single again. I think he's bored and wants something more exciting. I just don't know what to do.

Well, maybe tomorrow will be better, I doubt it but just maybe.

Good night.

I'm so sorry to hear that things are rocky between you and hubby. Can you get out for a date night? perhaps dinner at a quiet and half-empty restaurant where you can talk? --- since being banded - maybe he feels that you are changing and he is uncomfortable with that -- maybe he thinks that you WILL leave HIM if you lose all your weight? and maybe he just doesn't know how to handle you needing to take care of YOU first? The problem - you won't know until you talk to him about it. HUGS! and get some answers from your sweetie about what he's thinking/feeling about things - perhaps it is just (as you've mentioned before) you aren't able to help with the family business as much and he didn't realize how much weight you pulled in that area and is overwhelmed?