VENTING--- so don't read unless you mind me bitching!

I'm so furious with my husband! i love him so much, he's just so infuriating! I have wanted a palm pre so bad! He said that when I had enough cash I could have one! I have $300 in cash from puppies and he said no! I sound like a kid I know, but I'm freaking furious! We fight all the time about breeding the huskies. I'm so tired of it! I think I'm going to sell both my females and all the puppies so we just have our min. pom and call it good! Having puppies, which has been a life long dream.... isn't worth having when all me and Kevin do it fight fight fight!:smile:

I just want to buy SOMETHING without having to ask! I know we are trying to get out of debt! I understand that we have over $80,000 of student loans to pay off. I understand that we have a budget! But this is exactly why I wanted to breed huskies, so I could have the cash to do with what I want. Granted, they cost money too, kennel, male dog, food, vet....on and on! We will make over $3800 on all our 11 puppies. You would think he could spare $300 for a phone! He said puppy money was mine. Then he renegs when I want something. He figures all that money will go back into account for all I have spent on dogs. I just want to scream, shout, and bitch, bitch, bitch:cursing::cursing::thumbup::cursing:

I want my own life at times! I want somethings for me! Why do I have to put my family first ALL the time!???????? I'm tired of being an adult! I love my family and tomorrow i will feel different, but right now i just want to scream and vent! :thumbup::cursing::smile:

Oh, side note..... I've lost 2 more lbs!

Screaming is good for burning calories. Men! If we can put a man on the moon, why can't we put them all there?

Our husbands must be sharing the same brain. I have wanted gastric bypass for over 10 years. I am now only $900 away from saving enough (also using tax refund) for lap band. My husband has gone on a spending spree lately including hunting gear, wide screen tv, monster deck around pool. Now he is talking about building a shed, and painting his truck. He blew up this evening at the mention of me being close to my money goal. He said all he does is work to pay bills, He never gets to relax... he makes nooooo sense. He doesnt want me to have the surgery, and is pitching a fit because he doesn't want to spend tax money on it. Sorry for venting ontop of your vent. but I thought you could laugh knowing that you are not alone with your controlling husband. grrrrrr

OK, since we are husband bashing......Monday when mine left for work I was in tears. I was in pain and felt so bad. Did he call and check on me one time? HELL NO!!!!

WOW! That's feels better!:smile:

currysusan! Seriously vent all you want!

Rhonda, men suck! lol but we love them anyway!