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Fu*%ing awkward

My rant for the night.

Neighborhood Party tonight..Everyone is there. Except me. (kicking my teddy bear)lol

I live in a small private subdivision. The neighborhood gets together for parties often. At the last party, A husband got uncomfortably friendly with me. A hello kiss and moving in too close. He demanded I have a shot with him. I avoided him for the night and chalked it up to alcohol.

Now I have been taken off the guest list. Not a word or explanation. I am only speculating it was the situation at the last party...Who knows what other social faux pas I might have made.

How did I become the bad guy here??? Damn it, We own our home.

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    • KindaFamiliar
      KindaFamiliar

      Stop speculating... Ask... It could be any number of things.. But if you wanna know - ask...

    • Healthy_life2
      Healthy_life2

      @@gowalking I turned my focus to.Race for the cure. Ran it today. More positive experiences to have in life than my little subdivision drama..lol

    • LipstickLady
      LipstickLady

      Agree. If you are already the black sheep, what do you have to lose?

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    Stop speculating...

    Ask...

    It could be any number of things..

    But if you wanna know - ask...

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    I just stay away from people as much as possible for exactly that reason. I'm too old to deal with drama from people I don't even particularly like.

    This new philosophy has made my life so much easier.

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    @@KindaFamiliar

    In the scheme of things..Not a big issue. Just ranting and kicking the teddy bear tonight. I will talk and smooth this over sometime this week.

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    @@Babbs

    Wish I could avoid the drama. I'm the president of our housing association.

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    @@jenn1

    Or..

    Stir up some sh*t...

    It's definitely an option...

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    @@LipstickLady

    Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

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    I'm all for the mooning...

    Down trou ladies!!!

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    @@jenn1

    Try it on me...

    I'll tell you whether or not I feel hit on...

    But be warned - I'm no husband...

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    @@LipstickLady

    Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

    I get this.....bigtime !

    @@LipstickLady

    Nothing to lose..I just don't wanna be a grown up today.

    That was my week

    Amen, brother. Amen.

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    I vote ask... then give them hell if needed. Not your fault someone's husband is a creeper.

    Sent from my SM-G930P using the BariatricPal App

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    Regardless of the situation, it hurts to be left out...and that's what this is about. Just don't turn to food because you feel bad. That's how many of us cope...even with our tools.

    If you can't shrug this 'dis' off, find out why you were left off the invite. Resolve this rather than deflect it.

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