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I'm a little sad to see so little activity in this group. I was really hoping to find gay men who could understand what I'm going through. Especially if being a part of the chub/chaser/bear community. Hope it picks up.

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      I don't think my guy wants me to have it. Been with him for years. We're not intimate anymore. I guess it's been open for a couple years but I feel just single. I wonder if I'll be turned off by gu

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      @@tubabuddha sounds like what I've been going through. When intimacy falls away, it's tough to really keep a relationship going. Mine didn't want me to, and I put it off for a long while. I finally we

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      I'm usually pretty isolated anyway. I don't seem to find "chasers" just a bunch of kids looking for muscle bears. I got a call from the nurse that my insurance company sent a denial letter. Insuran

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    Hi CincyDave. I can totally understand where you're coming from. Talking definitely helps, especially when it's with people in similar social situations. I'm just over 4 months post op. Any questions you have, feel free to ask. I'd be more than happy to do what I can.

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    I forgot to come back here. The day of my pre-op, they got it all straightened out. I was sleeved on August 19th. I've already lost 40 lbs. everything seemed to move so quickly. It was the day before first day of school so I called a sub for the first week and a half. Then my graduate classes started. I'd join the Facebook group but I don't care to talk to lesbians about bear issues.

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    There is also a men's Facebook group tuba!

    Find me on Facebook and I can invite you. Rgodfrey09@gmail.com

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