They sound like bullies to me. Unfortunately, they will never change.
My advice is ignore them completely. And when they start back up with negative comments, just ignore them and don't engage with the drama they are trying to start.
A few have said that Indian is a good place to go. I love Indian, but not sure what to order. Tandoori chicken would be good. But I'd rather have some saag paneer.
But I'm scared to death. As much as I want this, I'm not sure I'm ready for it. I really just want to call them and cancel and order a pizza.
Are these feelings normal?
I'm now going through my initial consultations and if all goes well, I'm looking to be sleeved in November.
I'm reaching out here to find some support. I really want this done but am scared to death of the changes to my life. I would really like to talk to a few people who have been through this.