I have so many hidden secrets. In public I can be fierce but behind close doors I beat myself up!

You start by living up to nobody's standards but your own. Then strip yourself down to bare bones and decide what *you* have to do in order to make *you* happy. Put yourself first for once.

Then if wls surgery is what you've discovered is the right thing to do for you, and you're at the right time and right place in your life to give it everything you've got - then you've found your way to the exact place that you need to be.

We all see the flaws in the mirror, and everyone has deep dark secrets.

You're not alone.