I don't know if any of you have ever dealt with this kind of thing before but....I have a couple ...well i was going to say friends but they aren't really friends...women I know...that make complimnents to me but the way they say them to me i don't really think they mean them as compliments and when they say them they look at ewach other with this look on their faces like you know they are being bitches about it. I am so over this BS. I really want to knock the hell out of them and walk away smiling to myself....buuuttttt it is at work and i can't afford to be unemployed. Help me deal with this drama folks - I'm really about to lose my shit over here.....

"Don't you look skinny today" (look at each other)

"You have lost so much weight i bet your husband just LOVES your new body" (wink wink) (looks at each other all ugly)

"so be honest don't you feel better now that you aren't so fat?" (for real....sigh...just said to me 15 minutes ago...i am reallly trying not bitchslap a ho right now)

"So now that you lost all that weight are you going to start getting pedicures?" (like i was afraid to get my feet done before WTF????)

"I have a friend and she would love to talk to you about losing weight can i give her your number - oh wait you had surgery...nvermind..."

and on and on....I asked one of them this morning if she was serious and she said yes...don't you like talking about your success? i told her i felt like they were not being sincere and she said but you know we are your friends and we love you...(gag) so anyway - I needed to vent before i killed someone and you all so me on yahoo or something...but really the nerve of people...why do they feel so free to say that kind of stuff to me?? ANd for the record i am not that friendly......hahahahaha

I love this quote...

yes! i know we all deal with this kind of stuff in some form or fashion - i ignored them for a couple weeks and then they caught me in a group setting one day and i quite plainly told them in front of of the whole group that i did not appreciate their remarks and to keep their "advice" on my weight loss to themselves and to keep their fake compliments to themselves as well. and then i turned my head up and walked off like a boss. It was EPIC. hahahaha and liberating. that was last week and a few of my other co-workers have come up to me and told me how much they admired me for saying that to them that i am not the only person they have been bullying and that now i hope others will put them in their place as well. I do know they haven't been coming around as much so that is a bonus! But i was very professional and very calm that day (so not me!) and i hope that this puts an end to the fake crap around here - Granny always said - "if you cain't be nice I'll whip your ass" hahahahahaha! I'm pretty sure she meant that other thing about doing unto others or saying nice things ... or some such.... Have a good Monday folks!