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I AM BAD....OPINIONS.

Well for anyone that has a Red Lobster in their town knows that starting September they have endless shrimp.... Before my surgery which was 9.days ago my husband and I had several conversations regarding us going to places that I liked to eat at for a while until I can eat again. So tonight I said we have a gift card to Logan's if you want to use that up (because honestly I could take or leave Logan's). Now I want to also say that I have always been a picky ester, I don't like Mexican, Chinese, I have never eaten any type of fast food burgers etc, because I do no like food that is mixed. I don't eat soup.....chili or anything like that. However I do like Red Lobster. I know I am rambling but he decides we should go to Red lobster, I was a little taken back but I said well why don't you drop me off at the YMCA and I will walk and you can pick me back up because I think Sitting at Red Lobster is a bit too much for me right now. I really expected him to say well I will get Chinese or Mexican but NOPE, he said if you can't go then I will just call someone else to go with me. I was disheartened. And I made a comment that was probably not appropriate, I said "so if I can't go you will just replace me with someone who can. ". ugh I have been quite emotional since my surgery, this has been a difficult road. I have read in many places and even warned by my surgeon that sometimes this surgery causes issues in relationships. And I don't want that to happen. He hasn't said anything to me and I haven't been able to bring it up either, but I think we need to talk about it. OK RANT OVER!

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  • LipstickLady
    LipstickLady

    I don't think you are bad. I do think you are understandably emotional and he was a bit insensitive, though. You will have to acclimate to the "normal people". He can't be expected to have to accli

  • Thinkingthinner1109
    Thinkingthinner1109

    If I would have only had one cheddar bay bisquit in the past instead of four........I probably wouldn't be in this position.

  • Where as I agree that it wasn't him that had the surgery, I also believe that he could have been a lot more sensitive to the fact that he is going to your favorite restaurant without you. I say.....G

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And almost every place has mashed potato in an extreme pinch!

Then he'll swing the other way and be oversolicitous (to your hormonal self) with "where can we go where you can eat too?" and you'll want to cream him because he should know by now that you can find something to eat anywhere! The poor man won't be able to win, trust me ;)

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