Now that I've gotten up the nerve to post a before and after pic I don't know how. Please help!

Click the "Go Advanced" button. Under "Additional Options" scroll down to "Attach Files" and click on the "Manage Attachments" button. That will give you the option to upload a picture from your local computer or the internet.

The pics are showing too big. Any suggestions?

a simple way is to open the picture in your "Paint" program that comes with windows. Then on top click on "Image" then go to "stretch/skew" you will then see a little pop up menu. In the stretch part of the menu you will see horizontal and vertical with 100% next to them . just change them to a smaller % and click ok. Once you do that see if picture is small enough and if it is click on file and save. :gluck: