So I purchased new jeans today.. DH used to make jokes about my mom jeans. Recently he saw my "before" jeans and commented how he can hardly remember me wearing them.

So I was excited for him to see my new skinny jeans. I turned around and asked did he like the way they fit.

He said he felt he was being set up. I used to want to know did I look fat now all I want to know is does my butt look flat

ROFL, men are always afraid they will be accused of saying the wrong thing....which they usually so. Ask a friend whom you trust to give you feedback. flat butt or not....getting out of the mom jeans is huge victory. congratulations.

When I lost a lot of weight on the Atkins Plan, my husband pulled out a pair of jeans that I used to wear all the time. He opened them up and asked whose they were. When I told him they were mine, he was simply astonished without saying anything. If it wasn't me lightening up the air by laughing at them/him/myself, he wouldn't have felt comfortable doing anything. Our loving husbands love us unconditionally and as he has said many times, 'from the tent to the g-string, I will love you the same.' Except now, I don't ever want him lovin' a tent ever again