Will try to make this short. Divorced husband just over a year before surgery. Long story. "Got back together"...he moved back in. He is trying to make it work, I feel like the flame is out. Now that Ive lost 33 pounds he cant keep his hands off me. A little resentful thinking "Im the same 'fat' woman u cheated on & looked at with disgust, albeit a couple of years ago, but the same". Not looking for therapy or advice. Just "ranting & raving".

If you feel the flame is out, aren't you just wasting your time anyway? As long as you have Mr. Wrong in your house, Mr. Right will not step through the door. Just my opinion.

Feel free to say it as it is. You have EVERY right to.

x

MississippiQueen, rant away!

As I have lost weight, my confidence has come back and I have new expectations of anyone who comes in to my life - including my ex! You do whatever you think is best for you... Good luck!