I never been to a strip club. I mention for my 40th birthday I wanted to go to a strip club & see men shake there thing. Hubby said I guess you won't be with me if your planning on doing that. I said nada. He then said oh haven't you seen Enough "dick" in your life time? I still said nada.

Of course I feel it was wrong & rude of him to say that but I'm trying to keep the peace.

I married very young had kids young except my last two I was age 28 & 29. With all this being said I only been to a club twice one club was a social club so it was a bunch of low class people. Then the other was really nice we meet a celebrity. So I haven't been out much. Family gathering small parties or parties I made & host my self.

Now age 34 I feel like I miss out on a few clubs & watching men shake there thing. Going out with my mom as an adult. My sisters as adults. I never been to a bar & even though I'm a social drinker how does being in a bar feel? How would I experience anything if all I ever known is how to raise a family,cook,clean and do everything for my kids.

Now I want to break free & do what I want. Have my own place. Have plastic surgery. Enjoy life & be in peace & not force to cook even though I love it but I'm at the point of hitting this man with the pan lmbo

Thanks I know to some its no big deal but to me it's like I'm missing out since I married young & it's like the only person I ever known is my hubby.

You have become your own women which was bound to happen. You really didn't have a chance to actually find yourself as a young woman. You went from living with your parents probably into your own home taking on responsibilities of being a wife, mother, etc. Now you know there is more out there and I don't blame you for not wanting out of the abuse. All will be okay once everything comes into place.

You have become your own women which was bound to happen. You really didn't have a chance to actually find yourself as a young woman. You went from living with your parents probably into your own home taking on responsibilities of being a wife' date=' mother, etc. Now you know there is more out there and I don't blame you for not wanting out of the abuse. All will be okay once everything comes into place.[/quote']

Thanks