I am so afraid of failing......I failed with the lapband - lost 60 pounds in 2005 and after 2 babies (plus two more preg. That resulted in miscarriage) I have gained all my weight back. How will I be able to do this any differently? I would be so disappointed in myself if I was an RNY failure...whether failing to lose any, or gaining back......any words of encouragement are greatly appreciated!

To must think positive. It will all work its self out.

First of all your feelings are totally justified. You can do it!

I am so afraid of failing......I failed with the lapband - lost 60 pounds in 2005 and after 2 babies (plus two more preg. That resulted in miscarriage) I have gained all my weight back. How will I be able to do this any differently? I would be so disappointed in myself if I was an RNY failure...whether failing to lose any' date=' or gaining back......any words of encouragement are greatly appreciated![/quote']

You can do this! Rny is totally different from the band. Stay positive, stay connected, and know you got this !

RNY is very different from the band. Follow all the doc's orders and you will do great!