I'm having a hard time with my family and especially my husband not supporting me before surgery I'm still in the pre op stage and it is bringing me down so bad

If you havent taken them to a doctors appointment with you I would encourage you to do so. Even if you have already been to a seminar, have them go to one with you. It seems people are so uneducated about the procedure and its life long benefits that they are automatically negative. Education is key and the more people you have behind you the better. Consider it your mission to rally the troops.. you can do it.

I would def have some of them go with you to support groups. Others that had the surgery tell u how it has changed their lives. I'm going for an October surgery and my boyfriend goes with me and he realizes I'm not only doing this for myself to be healthier and live longer but also I want children and I have already miscarried. He supports my decision to be healthier now so we can have children

Remember we r all here for u so when u need that extra support come to us, we truly understand what u r going thru! (HUGS)

We are here fir you.

hang in there.... press on. This tool will change your life in such a positive way they will be sorry they havent supported you...but YOU need to do it for YOU and your health! We're here to support you!