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Seriously, you can't fix stupid

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I simply cannot understand going under the knife, having 85% of your stomach removed and a few months (or less) later, asking....."How long before I can have a soda?" That's simple, never. Or at least you never should. At the seminar I attended prior to surgery, I knew cokes were the ONLY thing he said NO to, no as in not in six weeks, six months or six years. I know there are some that cross that line, but why? I quit smoking fifteen years ago, a bad habit, an addiction, just like soft drinks are for some people. I have never wondered or considered going back. I did not stop smoking, just to start back up again a few months later. I was not a 'coke' person before, so the thought of NEVER drinking a coke again, that was not a deal breaker. I maybe had six cokes a year, and I had 'rules'.....crushed ice and out of a fountain. I can't believe anybody can think it's a good idea to consider this, I went into starting this new life knowing that I'd have to make lifestyle changes, changes that I can make because it is much, much easier to resist when I need to or want to, but my new life has a new look, besides wearing size 4's and 6's....the new me weighs every morning, religiously. When at home, I weigh and measure my food. I log my food on line. I make it a point, when I'm measuring a half cup of cottage cheese, I don't quite fill it to the top of the measuring cup. Almost but not quite, I under eat my sleeve, meaning I stop before it is filled, it is way more comfortable this way. I hate that 'Thanksgiving' full feeling. I am not deprived, I eat anything I want to eat, but there are things I CHOOSE not to eat, at least not often. Seriously, when it doubt, err on the side of caution, it's a slippery slope we are walking on. Failure is NOT foreign to any of us. It's easy to get in the gutter and not nearly as easy to climb back out. Ok, 'nuff said. I'll quit preaching!

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    For me, (and strictly for me), I jettisoned soda. Don't need it, there's nothing redeeming about soda (diet or regular). There's way better and more beneficial ways to get refreshed and re-hydrated

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NtvTxn,

What's going on with you today? The stuff that you have been writing the last two days is somewhat out of character....

Do you mean I'm not going to lose 30 in 7 days while lying around watching talk shows? This surgery really is a scam. I could lose more with one of the supplements sold at 2:30 in the morning.

Hey I lost 21lbs in 7 days lying around watching tv

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NtvTxn,

What's going on with you today? The stuff that you have been writing the last two days is somewhat out of character....

I'm sending you a personal message.

Also id like to point out the woman I babysit for is a bodybuilder and probably drinks 3-4 diet cokes a day...if (when I get to that point) I wanna have a diet soda every other week I think ill be alright.

Even though I agree with most of what you said.......everyone's journey is different. Sometimes it takes people longer to understand what they have/should do regarding eating. I don't judge anyone for this reason.

I agree. There a kind way to express your thoughts, and an inflammatory way,

Saying:

Seriously, you can't fix stupid

is inflammatory and sounds like someone with a chip on their shoulder. We are here to build each other up -- not judge.

WeeWers

Even though I agree with most of what you said.......everyone's journey is different. Sometimes it takes people longer to understand what they have/should do regarding eating. I don't judge anyone for this reason.

Bless your heart. Every Texan is not like me' date=' first of all, I can laugh at us, and how we are, deny it all you want. We are a different breed, all you have to do is look at our governor, like Rick Perry or not, he is a good Texas boy and we keep electing him, over and over again. Really, that says something right there. Then we have the Texas Nationalist Movement, a group who REALLY want us to secede from the others! Now, what were you saying, oh yeah, we aren't all like me. No, not all but....well, I'd rather have a stick in the eye than argue with a 'fellow Texan' about The Lone Star State.[/quote']

All I can say is thank god we are not all like you! You know people like you and my father are becoming the dying breed. I love where I came from but to put it before the country we are from is just sooo wrong on many levels. For one it is not only texans fighting for our country its people from every state that is giving you your freedom to be a bigot! And you know what that saying bless your heart is so stupid, if you have something to say dont cover it with stupid words say what you mean. You know you should really act you age and not your pants size.

I can not believe I have stooped to her level! I appologize to anyone I may offended. Last post on this thread.

I kinda of like the "act your age not your pant size" I actually can see you sticking your tongue out on that one!! :P

But really I live for a good fight but I think Ntvtxn

Is having an off day.

So I vote for ending this thread??

:)

I can not believe I have stooped to her level! I appologize to anyone I may offended. Last post on this thread.

It really shows your true character when you can apologize and admit your mistake. I applaud you for that!!!

I think Laura is right. We should just end it.

Wait..wait.. But I just got here! Sheesh.. Missed the good stuff again.

Pull the curtains.. The show is over

Wait..wait.. But I just got here! Sheesh.. Missed the good stuff again.

Pull the curtains.. The show is over

Girl you know the next fight is just around the corner :P

I'll give you the heads up on the next "good one"

:D

I kinda of like the "act your age not your pant size" I actually can see you sticking your tongue out on that one!! :P

But really I live for a good fight but I think Ntvtxn

Is having an off day.

So I vote for ending this thread??

:)

Didnt we already when she started acting out on another post?? Same topic?? She want a cookie for being perfect or what?

Great comment! I worry if someone starts down the "can I find a way around this rule" so early in the process.

I drink pepsi now cause coke had to much gas n gas is a major factor in chest pain n I still eat candy cause my sugar levels are low n I havent gained any weight n i kept loosing weight when I first did surgery its been two yrs now in two wks that i done it

Didnt we already when she started acting out on another post?? Same topic?? She want a cookie for being perfect or what?

Exactly! It's a shame threads have to keep closing because of one person.

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