I am 3 weeks post op had my surgery march 18 I was dating a guy pre-surgery that liked me the way I was before we'll there was some baggage with him but nothing I thought would matter. We'll about 2 wks post op started having trouble with him and kept leading me on and then not answering causing all these emotions to come to surface and just couldn't stop crying. We'll I finally broke it off but was leery .

I am just stand offish of dating because I fear I will constantly think he only likes me because I look good and would not normally date me if I had not had surgery ? Just don't know what to do ?

I wouldn't be concerned about that if I were you. There are going to be men attracted to you rather your big or small.

Thank you !! Just have a lil but of anger right now but from what I hear I think it is normal

I wouldn't be concerned about that if I were you. There are going to be men attracted to you rather your big or small.

Exactly what Mrsmo33 said! With all you're going thru with the new you coming out, please don't waste anymore energy on someone who doesn't appreciate you. Let the thought of him disappear with your pounds sweetie! (That's supposed to be a wink but doesn't really look like it. Looks more like someone hit with Bells Palsy! )

Thank you so much !