I decided to tell only family members until after surgery. And once I start losing weight, if people ask I will not lie about surgery.

Anyway, I told my dad today. I always respect him and really care what he thinks. He said that it's my decision and that if I could do it with just diet and exercise it would be best, but if I can't, he thinks surgery is a good decision and he would like to see me get rid of the weight. My sister in law had vsg about a year ago and is doing great. I think that has a lot to do with how accepting he is about it.

I'm so glad he is supportive. <3 So now I have the support of my husband, kids, sister, brothers, and my dad! I think that's all I need until after surgery. Except you guys of course! I love coming here and reading about all of your experiences!

I'm so glad that he reacted well. It's such encouragement when we have those we love behind us.

Thats good let me tell you I have told a couple of people and people have been negative. I am like until you are morbidly obese then don't tell me I shouldn't do this. I just ask for prayers and positive thoughts. GOOD YOUR FAMILY UNDERSTANDS... Good Luck

That's awesome Mom2Five. I'm sure it wasn't easy bringing it up, but so happy to hear it went well, and that you can add your Dad to your growing list of supporters. So, um....would'ya mind telling my Dad for me next, since you seem to be pretty good at it? No pressure or anything...just sayin'. lol Seriously though, I admire you for your courage today!