i dont know about you but i feel if you dont want me fat than you dont want me skinny. maybe if i met another sleever who is going through the same thing. my cousin got the surgery and now her husband is giving her a hard time. saying she think she is cute and that he liked her the way she was. see i dont want that. i want someone who is support me big or small.

so is there anyone out there that feels the same

I do!! I want someone who is going to support me 100%! Being a sleever means that i'll never be 100% scott free again. I'll always have to keep an eye on what I eat, etc. I wouldn't want someone to judge me for that, but rather I'd want them to help me out!

I think your cousin's husband is probably afraid she may get skinny and then decide to leave him.

she is skinny now he has a problem