Yep, it's me; I canceled my DeLarla account long ago because a few specific bandsters refused to stop stalking every single post I participated in or started, and sure enough they're the same people to start another DeLarla bashing party behind my back, yet they call me childish? I just got back from Dallas after a wild weekend and can barely talk, but I can still LAUGH OUT LOUD! Then there's a few who "think" they know me because they joined LBT so late in the game that it's too easy for them to pass judgment without knowing the entire story. Plain and simple, I avoid some members like I avoid piles of dog poop, and I wouldn't dare click on a thread that contained certain names, but it's those specific people who jump all over my name and get sick, disturbing thrills bashing me not only behind my back, but when I'm not around to defend my name while insisting I'm immature? I've sent PMs to them asking them to stay away from my name while they play innocent. I swear, I can see them fanning themselves like a bad actress begging for cool Water before they get the vapors!

This morning a friend showed me the sad mud-slinging going on over my name, and it's the same few people that take such great joy in following my name around the board for the sole reason of instigating trouble - the same people that threatened and frightened certain members from coming to Vegas for the Suarez, which I postponed, but if anyone's coming to Vegas that weekend, my home is still open and you can come with me to the parties I have booked and watch my show live or play on the Strip till I'm done working.

The rest of you mean so much to me, and I try to keep up with messages and calls, but Slumber Parties is such a wild and lucrative ride that I'll be leaving my paralegal job in a few months. Last week I averaged $429.00 per hour; I'm not trying to impress you - I'm trying to impress upon you the golden opportunity that rained on my life last year. I've been busy empowering women, improving relationships and making insane money with little time for anything else but the traveling it takes me on... and now Convention is coming up in March in New Orleans during Mardi Gras! Whoop!

At the risk of sounding conceited, I wish more people were as brave as I am and less afraid to speak the truth when the truth needs to be spoken. I've never shied away from a reality check, constructive criticism or an insult, so when people say, "She can dish it out but she can't take it" baffles me. I'm less afraid than any other woman I've ever met. I can dish it out, and I can take it. Bring it on, but not here. It’s so easy to sit alone and write things you can’t back. Tell me the time and place and have the balls to meet me face to face. I’ll buy the drinks. Got nerve?

"I'm not bad, I'm just drawn that way."

p.s. Where are the convention pics??

Hey pretty Lady ~ nice to hear and see you are around:)

Hey chickie....nice to see you back; I did notice your absence! Hey...it's good to take the "higher ground"; I hear ya there...I had to do it a few times myself....I still check in sometimes but the vast majority of my LBT time is spent now on the Canadian thread (for reasons you'll understand!).

Great to hear your bizness is doin' sooooo GREAT!!!!

*cheers*

WOw...okay, I guess I'm the last to find out about all the hooopola that has gone on.

Hmmmm I guess that is why I shall just continue to stick to the nice peaceful Canuck thread...I'm glad I avoided all this mess.

I hear you Yoda, I was away most of the summer, and guess I must have missed an awful lot...thankfully. It's sad that whatever happened got so out of hand, or that so many people honestly are relieved that it's worked out this way... sometimes being in the dark is a good thing...