Waiting for a date it will be either June 4th or 18th. Went to the per op class last Thursday and my head is still spinning.

How are you feeling? Nervous, second thoughts, need advice??

Here if you need any help, i live in mn btw as well. Congrats on your date! [=

-d'andra

I'm a bunch of things right now cuz I just realized its 2 weeks away . I'm having problems with smoking I can't seem to quite

I'm a bunch of things right now cuz I just realized its 2 weeks away . I'm having problems with smoking I can't seem to quite

I wish i could help more in that department but i have never been a smoker. Have you tried the Patches, there is also a pill (not sure of the name) that helps ween you off. Try this: throw out whatever packs you have and dont buy anymore. I would hate for you to have complications with surgery because of your habit. You have a decision to make, whats more important: the length of your life or a cigarette. If you can answer that question then you can quit smoking. Tap into that will power that you have and fight for your health. Its not going to be easy but anything truly worth fighting for never is. I hope things work out for you.

-d'andra

Yes, I really wait the surgery . It hard to stop smoking after 34 years. I don't understand it seems that if some people have a hard time with things it always comes down to do you really want to have weight loss surgery. Everyone in life has different things to deaL with. We need to support others no matter their faults or issues.

Yes' date=' I really wait the surgery . It hard to stop smoking after 34 years. I don't understand it seems that if some people have a hard time with things it always comes down to do you really want to have weight loss surgery. Everyone in life has different things to deaL with. We need to support others no matter their faults or issues.[/quote']

I never implied that and what i originally said i deleted because i wasn't trying to judge you. All im saying is sometimes people arent ready that is all. I dont see how you read my post and thought i wasnt trying to support and uplift you. From what i say i was trying to offer you advice on quitting even though i have never been a smoker.

-d'andra

I'm sorry I took it the wrong way. Everything else is going good. I lost the weight I needed to, got all my meds in chewable. All my papers for work and ins are done. It's just this darn smoking I can't seem to kick. I'm going to try on my weekend really hard . I wrote a list of this I need to get done . Again I apologize for the misunderstanding.

I'm sorry I took it the wrong way. Everything else is going good. I lost the weight I needed to' date=' got all my meds in chewable. All my papers for work and ins are done. It's just this darn smoking I can't seem to kick. I'm going to try on my weekend really hard . I wrote a list of this I need to get done . Again I apologize for the misunderstanding.[/quote']

Not a problem. [= you can do it girl just keep trying.

-d'andra