I had my mind made up to go to Dr. Kelly i went to the bank today to get the loan she said no problem but you have to promise me you will not go to Mexico to get it done. So now im back to day one . So any input you have for us doctors would be helpful. Prices and how londg it took from start till surgery with self pay.

thanks

It's none of her business where you spend the money. SHE said you have to promise ME, the BANK didn't say you have to promise any such thing. Huh, promise??? A personal loan, is a personal loan. What you do with it is YOUR business.

Umm...legally, she can't do that. I work at a bank, and I'd be fired if I ever told someone they couldn't do something with their own money! My goodness! That's unethical!

I understand that she can't say that really but we live in a small town and she could easly just say no. so any input on us doctors would be helpful.

That's just unbelievable! Who does she think she is?? Is this the loan officer, bank president, what? Either way it doesn't matter. If it's a personal loan, that's just what it is "personal" they have no right to ask you what you will be doing with the money. You just need to qualify for the loan. Tell her the only thing you're going to promise is to spend the money wisely investing in your healthy future. No, really it's none of her business! This makes me so mad people who bully others and that's just what she is - a bully.

I have found Dr. Washington in Myrtle Beach sc has a special for $8000.00 has anyone heard of him? He said he was from NJ and has just come to Sc

"Specials" make me shudder. In any event, I suggest you open a new thread and ask that question. . Having said that, please don't pick someone based on price or the opinion of strangers on this website alone. Research, research , research. Best of luck!