Ok this sounds silly but here it is. I have an initial appt set up with Dr Barker on Thursday, but am able to attend a seminar for Dr Nicholson tonight. I feel guilty about doing this for some reason. I know I shouldn't be. I deserve to have the best dr my insurance will cover.

I say go to the surgeon you want as long as he is covered by your insurance. He would not feel guilty if he had to deny you for some reason. Plus this is your body, not his you do what want, and don't think twice about it.

It may be worth attending the seminar tonight, if only to get more information. I have spoken with three surgeons so far, and they have all given different info and had various advice to give. The more opinions you can get the better in my opinion! xx

Nothing wrong with that!

I went to the seminar last night and really happy that I did. I found the person I want to go with for my surgery. Now the long process of getting it approved through insurance.YIKES One step at a time. I am happy with my decision though.