just need some over that can give me some tough love and tell me to get my butt in gear when i need it

I will. But you'd have to do the same for me!

Helllo ladies. ... =-O lol... sorry just being silly. .. saw your both in need of guidance, I've been banded for 6 yrs now, lost 160 lbs. And know the trials & tribulations that come with surgery. I was not fortune enough to have anyone to support,advise, it turn too other than Dr. And they will only tell you so much. That is why I offer my services to you, and anyone who seeks help. You may not feel comfortable dealing with man, I understand, no worries, I will tell you I am a comical Guy,always cracking jokes, or say silly stuff..but bottom line is getting you to where you need to be to succeed! Oh, I can be a bit flirtatious, but all in fun... so if you feel comfortable and seek some laughs at same time. ..hit me up! :-) Steve