hello i need some help i don't know what to do

so i was so ready to get this surgery and i went to a couple apointments only needed a couple more but when i went to the psycologist she told me since i am a compulsive eater and i have anxiety that she thinks i need to work on my mind some but she said she wont deny me for the surgery

so for the past week in a half i been eating less and did manage to lose 6 pounds but i keep feeling like i want to binge cause im so starving and yes i am eating i eat probally 1700 calories a day and im working out im just soo hungry i hate it and i feel like if i don't get this surgery im going to be right where i am next year sitting here still big wishing i had it cause i need it to help me with my hunger

but i also did something stupid and didnt call to calcel my appointments i just never showed up and i think the nutritionist was pretty mad cause she left me a message but i was soo tired and over slept to call in

so what should i do ? should i still pursue it i really want to cause its not that i want to binge but i want to eat cause im starving and i know if i keep on this im only going to end up bingeing and that is not what i want i need something that will make me feel full

im really confused right now

Only you know what is really right for you. I would suggest you get the band as it will be a tool to help you with your hunger, not feel so hungry and make you feel full faster when you are eating. From the sounds of it, these are all things you need help with. If you're having anxiety that causes you to eat, you would do well with a tool that helps you stop. Yes most of this is a mental battle, but in the meantime, you'll have some backup while you win that mental fight. Reschedule and go back in.

thanks girl I think I will !